We need to get used to depend on ourselves, help

We need to get used to depend on ourselves, help ourselves, make ourselves happy, and heal ourselves ...etc. .. because no one will. May be we care about people around us but they didn’t pay back.. and we shouldn’t wait for their care because we act like who we really are, not to get their care. We are good and we will always stay good we never gonna stop the way we act because of their ignorance. We need to care about ourselves, act spontaneously, and don’t wait from anyone to tell or do any of these very simple things that make us very happy. yes, we can be beside ourselves and need nothing else.