You have to recognize them
let's imagine What is the meaning or meaning of a friendship?
The friendship includes an invaluable treasure. Treasure may be exhausted because of the turn of fate, but the friendship relationship remains.
That friend does not mean someone who is always present wherever you are. That friend is someone who knows to put himself. He always provides his ears to hear all your grievances, to give up his shoulders as a back when you are sucked in sobs. And he is the first person to share happiness when you see or hear your happiness. Although sometimes you forget to share happiness with him.
That friend does not mean to interfere with all your problems. But he gives you enough space for you to think of solutions to the problem. to respond honestly and objectively to each opinion. He is also a person who does not want to see you disappointed, so he always reminds you when you step in the wrong direction. Supports you when you leave your neighborhood, forgive you when you ever unconsciously make him hurt.
maybe that good friend does not mean you have to know everything about him from A to Z, but you can very sure say, 'My best friend can not do that. Even if he does, there must be a strong underlying thing ', if someone else is trying to instigate.
a friendship does not mean without distinction.
It's about being respectful, not using each other. Friendship is also not about understanding and understanding, because a friend can still accept things that can not be understood or understood by others.