SATURDAY NIGHT WITH ZIZY EPISODE 20
Good evening ladies and gentlemen of the steemit block chain. It is another wonderful time for your favourite and entertaining show titled, "Saturday night with Zizy". I bring to you tonight the 20th episode. It has been a journey of 5months with so many high and low moments but most especially I owe the success of this show to you my wonderful and amazing audience.
Later week unfortunately I couldn't put up the show because real life outside the block chain caught up with me and there was absolutely nothing I can do about it. I am aware I am yet to reply comments on the show but nevertheless I want to sincerely appreciate all of you who took time out of your busy schedule to show me some love on the comment section. I shall surely visit it soon.
Without much Ado, DJ play the music in jenifa's voice...LOL
Today on the 20th episode of this show, I shall be doing something different from the expected. It's been 5 amazing months and I feel it is wise to go down memory lane and see how far we have come, cross the T's and do the I's. This may also be beneficial to so many of us who didn't start the show from the first episode.
THE JOURNEY SO FAR
On the third week in the month of April, Saturday night with Zizy took the steemit block chain by storm with an introduction that generated over hundred comments. It was the first of it's kind, a show to help solve and manage relationship issues on the block chain. The responses signified it was a welcomed developments and the episode one couldn't wait to kick off.
On the first episode, the expectations were high but I delivered with the first topic, "why do men pull away after sex?" A survey of why men runaway after sex was taken and it generated some funny responses. If you wanna know more please do check it out.
"The art of kissing" followed as episode 2 on the show. Some men are terrible kissers and needed to understand that kissing is not just an action but an art needed to be mastered. The benefits of kissing was also discussed. This episode featured the 70k and 30k saga. If you know you know... lol
Saturday night with Zizy welcomed the month of may with an explosive episode 3. On this episode we talked about a very controversial topic, "men and women who enjoys sex more?" The arguments were hearted but it was worth it. You can check it out to know more.
Episode 4 talked about "things you should never apologize for". I talked about 8 things specifically that doesn't require you ever saying the word, "sorry". You wanna know those things? You know what to do.It was on this episode that my live show on airhawk discord server every Saturday by 8pm was born after much persuasion from @surfyogi to start one
Episode 5 entered gallantly and it was addressed to the ladies. So many times we spend years dating a guy and believing it will end happily ever after only for him to wake up one day and say 'he can't picture you in his future". It very devastating but it can be handled. Take a flight down to find out how and more.
Here comes episode 6 with what I may call the highlight of the show. A lot of people enjoyed the episode and so many sent private messages saying thank you. The topical issue was "Assumption". So many of us are still guilty of this cankerworm. Read up and remind yourself.
How to know your partner is not over his or her ex was episode 7. Relationship is tough enough let alone competing for your partner's attention with someone who was supposed to be an ex. It could just be you are paranoid or perhaps he or she is truly not over the ex. Find out how to know.
Cheating as difficult as it is to define was the topic for episode 8. We talked about why people cheat and if a relationship can survive after cheating. The comment section was agog with arguments and counted arguments. The arguments were carried on to Episode 9 and people had more opportunities to air their mind on if a relationship can survive after a cheating episode
From he previous battle ground, a new topic was inspired and became a topical issue for episode 10 with the topic, "how can you tell if it is just sex or he wants more?" The guys felt cheated and chanted that an episode on same topic should be written with particular reference to women and this became the episode 11 with the topic, "how can you tell it is just sex or she wants more?'
Episode 12 looked at an issue of most relationships which is money. We talked about why money matters in a relationship and concluded that love is not enough to sustain a relationship. Do you disagree? Well read up first, your mindset might be changed.
If money is not forthcoming in a relationship and it feels like your partner is wasting your time, should you double date? Episode 13 talked about this and more. People have various reasons for double dating but is it valid?
Say you decide not to double date and stick with the relationship, do you know love actually dies when it is not nurtured with love, care and affection? Episode 14 talked about what causes love to die and episode 15 gave us guidelines on how to rekindle dying love. In doing this, understand that what is not meant to be can never be. Not all relationships can be saved.
An anonymous writer talked about a girl he met barely a week demanding from 5k from him. This spurred up various reactions from readers on the comment section. Ladies were called gold diggers, oh well I needed to let people know what my stand point was and on episode 16, we talked about if a lady should ask for money from her boyfriend and the right time to do so. Besides how much is too much?
Episode 17 talked about why people find it hard to apologize. "I am sorry", three simple but heavy words to say. We all know it is important but why do we find it so difficult apologizing? This lingered to episode 18 where we talked about "the right way to apologise". If it is important and difficult we might as well learn the best way to do it so it will be accepted.
Episode 19 talked about a new topic "Ghosting". What is ghosting and why do people ghost in relationships? It is a very bad habit and affects your partner negatively. If you missed it, well it is better late than never.
This is the journey so far on your favourite show "Saturday night with Zizy" I would love some feedback from my audience. Appraisals are welcome be it positive or negative criticism.
1. What episode did you join the show?
2. What has been your experience so far?
3. What episode was your best episode on the show?
4. Has the show in anyway affected your relationship positively or negatively?
5. What do you think I should improve on or relinquish?
6. What topic suggestions would you love me to discuss on this show?
If you love this show and want to support, your SBDs and Steem are very welcomed. Supporters so far are @eurogee, @amec and @samminator@sammest and @smyle. Thanks a lot guys.
Hello @zizymena
Wow it is 20 episode already. How time flies! For me, I have been an integral part of this show and have witnessed most of the episodes if not all. So far so good. The show has been achieving its objectives as there have been testimonies with each passing episode.
What I have learnt can't be quantified nor measured
I think you should put more effort in keeping up with the show.
All the best.
@eurogee
Thank you so much @eurogee for your appraisal and words of encouragement. Seeing you episode after episode here on this page makes me believe i must be doing something right.
Lolz... The episodes are all connected and I like the way you synchronized them in this piece...
I actually started the episodes with you but haven't been consistent due to unforseen circumstances... However, my best episode was "men and women, who enjoys sex more" (lol)...
Every episode was a hit back to back and you are indeed a true Love doctor.. Keep the fire burning dear!
Happy Sunday
Your last episode was 17years back @desmoniac, but its still good to see you around. I hope you wont abandon the show again
I joined you from the very start. Initially i felt uncomfortable majorly because like many, i dont want to talk about sex and its related issues publicly, i felt i may not be able to cope here especially in comment section. But as the weeks rolled by with more episodes, i found that all you portray here are real life situations which we shouldnt shy away from.
I have always enjoyed your talk shows, episode 7 on how to know if your spouse is not over yet with his/her ex got me. I saw all your points as valid. You killed that episode and other episodes have been wonderful.
Due to unforseen occurrences i may forget to come here on saturday but even if its 5 days past, i always drop by to get tips on handling relationships and helping friends with relationship issues.
Great kudos dear, keep being wonderful with this. Its really impacting
Thank you so much mama @adore-eu, well im sorry but you will have to get comfortable with discussing these issues because im looking forward to having you as a guest on my radio show so we can learn from your exoerience as a mother and as a wife
Yay!!! She made it today. Congratulations, she's 20 years old today.
I'm so proud of you for successfully keeping this up till this day. More grace Honey!
1. I found this show in Episode 4 but I wasn't consistent until Episode 8.
2. So far, it's been amazing. I learn from some comments I come across when I come around to drop my comments and automatically I've also become a relationship counselor 😂 but it's a good thing. I feel so glad that I always have something beneficial to give to the Anonymous section which is also one of the most important part of the show.
3. I must be honest, I don't have a favorite episode. I enjoyed every episode. Different stories and cases, which prompted me to think and drop a possible solution I could also take if I was in any of the situations in every episode so far.
4. Well so far, my relationship status has been intact. The show however, enlightened me on certain things (Added Knowledge).
5. Improve - I once wanted to ask if we could get some feedbacks from the anonymous candidate. I'm sure this would also encourage some of us to keep dropping their thoughts n opinions here on the show
6. Ermmm right now I don't have any topic in my head. Maybe something might come up later sha.
Once again, well done! 👍
.... @mizdais....
Thank you so much @mizdais, you are definetly one person i always look forward to seeing on the show and yes you are now a certified relationship counsellor😁😁😁
You say it the way it is and i truly appreciate that. Thank you for staying loyal.
Yeah we do get feedbacks but some just do it privately although i have posted about 4 feedbacks. Sometimes i dont hear from them again and when i send messages they just say yeah it helped thank you so i dont post it.
Thank you for sticking with us. Any topic suggestion?
I hope I will be there today! 😷... Welldone ma @zizymena
Im looking forward to it @eddie23
Wow.. Here she is finally. I practically searched your username to make sure I am not missing out on today's show. What a long way this show has come.. Applause to you Zizy for your doggedness and gallantry 😎
I guess I joined the show in episode 10.. I can't really remember..
The experience so far has been thrilling and educative. I learn from the real life stories you share every Saturday for real. 😎😎😎
My Favorite episode? None.
All episode of the show come with it's various thrills and lessons. I can't place my hands to single out any of them (from episode 10) as the best. All are great.
My suggestion will go this way; please add some like a medium where one can actually look for a hook up.
-- something like a match-making-- on the show. I am saying this because me dey find wiffey ooo. Ha! 😎😎😎
Also, I will love you to touch on the topic of feminism. What's wrong with these bunch of femnists ladies we see everywhere and what is their end game at the end of the day?
PS- make no team small geh with big God quote me abeg. I am not feeling fine.. 😶😶😶
Lolss
Finder, u will see oo
Hahahahaha @dklef, oh wow. Im stunned at your levwl of commitment to this show. Thank you so much. If you joined episode 10 then you have indeed come a long way.
Hook up? Lol. Will that work on the block chain? Most of these block chain babes are hooked o.
Feminism and the end game, interesting topic. I will see to it
Humm another new turn
We die here
I started from the very the very first episode, and ever since it been awesome.
I love all episodes, especially the fun corner. Hahahha.
You rock zizy😘
Yes love you have been here from day 1 and i know you do love the fun corner, thank you so much for being faithful...lol
What advice do you have for the show @rebeccafl
@zizymena
Kudos for your persistence to continues this program despite some unfavourable situations, I pray your effort pays soon.
I think joined the first edition and have continued following due to the great way you are running the program.
My experience so far is very encouraging.
This question seems to have no answer from me as each episode dwelt on an issue and all were unique.
I believe it has positively impacted on my relationship.
The program is improving daily and therefore should continue in that manner.
I think you can discus 'the negative effect of lies in a relatioship.
Thank you so much @dubem-eu. Yes you are one of my pioneer members and have been faithful till dats. "Negative effect of lies in a relationship" will surely be a topic on this show. Thank you for this beautiful suggestion
Thanks for such a regular post every Sat night, I always enjoy it immensely, even if I don't remember it on Sat! ;-)
Amazingly relevant, I find your show entertaining, educational and illustrative of how relationships have changed over time, from what my parents knew in their time, certainly. And now in the age of social media, even yet again, and again, changing faster than many can even keep up with.
Please continue with it, I love it, and will try to read every week!
Thank you @surfyogi, you have been a source of inspiration and a wall of support. I cant thank you enough
Hmmm. We have come a long way in the show. It's interesting to know that you have stayed consistent all the while.
What episode did you join the show?
I joined the show on the second episode. I was looking for good stuff to read that particular Saturday and I stumbled on your blog. I have managed to come back every week since then.
What episode was your best episode on the show?
Non exactly, but episode 12 to 15 thought me a lot of lessons. I began to see relationships from a whole new perspective.
Has the show in anyway affected your relationship positively or negatively?
I'm not in a relationship at the moment, but there certainly has been positive lessons learnt that may come in handy soon enough. Your relationship tips have been wonderful.
It's been an amazing ride with you @zizymena. Thanks for reaching out the world the way you know how to. Keep shining 🔆
Bless you @korexe, i always look forward to reading from you every saturday. I can say for a fact that you are one of those that always look forward to this show. Im happy i have a fan in you. Pleass keep coming around.