Sex is suppose to be sacred. Sacred means it should be holy and pure. The only way sex can be holy is when it follows the direction of the holy book. Sex should be after marriage according to the holy book though sex before marriage follows physical tradition (testing waters before diving in).
Okay, so you believe sex is supposed to be only after marriage, cool. But do you have a problem with people who have sex before marriage, what if your partner has had sex with other people before y'all get married?
I'm trying to be indifferent because it's a matter of CHOICE. My partner's pasts are behind him. This is our present and future, we decide on whether to wait or not