Am happy to be part of this movement , may you continue to grow in wisdom @zizymena , my advice goes to anonymous2 , The simple truth is that lady was never your friend because obviously your so called friend has been dating your guy when you guys are still together , hadn't been you guys are still together i would have advised you to fight for your relationship but since the guy is now your ex , forget about that your so called girlfriend , the only way forward is to show them you are better off without them , let the guy know what he missed by choosing your girlfriend over you, make him wonder if he was crazy or blindfolded for allowing you to go , remain classy and sassy and watch the right guy come by if their is none yet ...Good luck