How to recover your ex?

Everyone in life has gone through a love break in which we are hooked and we greatly desire to recover that person that for us is still important for our lives.

It is necessary that before putting into practice these tips to recover your former partner, be completely honest with yourself and ask yourself if, really this person is worth the effort and time you will invest? If this individual adds to your life, or if on the contrary it was a toxic relationship that only affected you in your emotional well-being.

The really important thing when putting into practice the following advice is that you arm yourself with patience and have the conviction that there is still something of interest in your ex-partner for you, because we are frank, nothing can revive after having died completely.

1- Law of zero contact: especially in those couples who had an appalling break, this comes as a surprise. This rule is nothing more than breaking all possible communication chains with your ex, and I mean all: friends, family, places, social pages, smoke signals, everything that can allow a direct or indirect contact with the individual. This law will first allow you to take the time necessary to replenish and organize your ideas, take the necessary strength to face the process of loss and analyze the failures that both had in the relationship. On the other hand it will allow your ex to have the same opportunity as you and allow you to feel your absence and miss you, this will make him begin to face a life where you are no longer and if you still care, be sure that he will be intimidated by your silence and will look for you Keep the contact zero for approximately 1 to 3 months.

2- Create a life: invent or reinvent your life, not only with the purpose of recovering your ex, but with the purpose of becoming an interesting person, with a balanced and versatile life. Expand your social groups, get your purpose, have goals andFixed goals and fight for them. Doing this will allow you not to have so much time to think about the process you are living and it will be easier for you to ignore the absence of your ex.

3- Put into practice a new version of you: if your ex comes back, you should show him the new version of you, put your limits and show that the time they were away served to grow as a person, so you will be sure that they will not return to fall into the same mistakes and you will have the full confidence of giving yourself another chance. You should always keep in mind that it is important in a relationship to maintain our dignity, you must maintain your limits and if you do not want to retire with dignity, with the satisfaction that you tried.