Do men miss their lovers after an affair? Two men tell it like it is

Men in the affair, generally do not pay sincerely, they just play with women ambiguous, after will not be responsible.

So once they break up with their lover, they leave it alone and either return to their family or move on to their next goal.

A lot of women will be hurt in the relationship outside of marriage, nothing more than moving the true feelings, but the man has walked away, and does not want to continue to develop.

At this time, the woman saw the man's heart, too much pain, but the man is at ease, even with other women together, to the past feelings have been put down.

In fact, men do not want to entangled in the affair, as long as get, will gradually lose interest.

Moreover, because men will consider the actual situation, worried about the relationship exposed, will affect the marriage, will certainly try to get rid of the woman, once left, also won't miss and entanglement.

So do men miss their lovers when an affair is over?
These two men tell it like it is.

First, Mr. Lv: After a long time to get rid of the lover, will not think
After nine years of marriage, Mr. Lu took a lover, and they were together for three years before it finally ended.

Mr. Lu said he was a married man with responsibilities and could not be with her all the time.

Besides, she was still young and would get married sooner or later. She could not love him all her life. There was no need to go on.

However, when they broke up, she was very painful, never let go of him, it took a long time to get over.

At the beginning of the separation, she would come to him on her own initiative and sometimes go to his place of work, which annoyed Mr. Lu.

Later, Mr. Lu explicitly told her not to pester, and gave her a breakup fee of 30,000 yuan. After that, he deliberately hid from him and deleted her contact information so that she could not find it.

It can be seen that after the end of the affair, the man will be particularly unfeeling, will not have a trace of pity for the woman.

Moreover, they will not miss the lover, it is not easy to get rid of, as long as put down, will not look back.

Therefore, a woman in the feelings, must keep rational, do not believe in extramarital affairs, avoid being hurt in the future.

Especially the woman in the affair, after the end of the relationship with the man, it is best to put down, do not continue to entangle.

If you can't let go all the time, but also have fantasies about men, will only make yourself more painful, he will care about you, you have so painful, what's the point?

Men for extramarital affairs, never cherish, once you choose to leave, it is impossible to miss, will only accelerate the pace of escape, don't be persistent.

Mr. Liu: I never thought of marrying her, and I certainly won't after breaking up with her
After thirteen years of marriage, Mr. Liu met his first love. Both sides were very emotional when they met.

Three months later, Mr. Liu asked his first love to go out to dinner. Maybe he drank too much and did not control his emotions, so he had the relationship that should not have happened and then walked into the affair.

Mr. Liu said that he used to think that his first love was the "white moonlight" in his heart. Maybe after they really got together, they were exposed to the trivialities of life, only to find that she was just an ordinary woman.

Therefore, Mr. Liu never wanted to marry her, just to satisfy the curiosity of the heart, is to settle the knot in his heart.

In this way, Mr. Liu and his first love get along for a year, broke up with her, both sides did not entangle, leave separately.

After that, Mr. Liu did not think about her, but to return to the family, the feelings of the marriage gradually faded.

In fact, men into the affair, mostly out of curiosity, and seeking a temporary sense of freshness, never want to be with a woman forever.

They can not be responsible for the woman, let alone want to marry her, but to her as emotional sustenance and comfort, in order to satisfy the desire of the heart.

For such a man, once they break up with a woman, they will not miss it later, feel that it is just so, there is no need to badger.

In the days to come, they either return to the family, look down on the affair, or continue to seek other comfort, once the lover, had put down.

Therefore, women should not trust men outside of marriage, no matter how affectionate they are, they should keep an eye out to avoid the risk of gain and loss.

After the man ends the affair, usually very unfeeling, even if you are good again, he will not cherish, as long as leave, will not want to.

In conclusion, men don't miss their lovers after an affair is over.

On the one hand, having managed to get rid of a woman, they simply don't want to be tied down and fear that the affair will be revealed will only accelerate their departure.

On the other hand, many men after the end of the affair, will return to the family, they feel that the affair is just like that, and is not the scene expected in the heart, will not nostalgia.

Of course, some men put down the lover, will continue to look for other women, this kind of man is more irresponsible, for the old love, it is impossible to leave a trace of thought.

So, the affair develops to the end, after all, is empty, there will be no future.

Moreover, when the relationship ends, the man will not think of the woman, but leave unfeeling figure, bring the woman is always bitter fruit.

Hope in reality, men and women can take the initiative to refuse extramarital affairs, only to avoid the pain, in order to live peace of mind, happiness.