Throwback Thursdays | My Student Wanted To Sue Me For This Reason

in #education7 years ago (edited)

I'm trying to…

 

I have been lecturing for almost six years. Lecturing was my initial dream job. When I got my dream job at the age of 25, I was the youngest lecturer without Ph.D. in this highly competitive field.

The subjects I was lecturing include but are not limited to the areas of linguistics and education.


 

Fast forward six years, I hit the plateau. That was why I took an indefinite break from teaching.

While other teachers who are Government-bonded didn't have this privilege, I realized that I was indeed spoilt with the choice of having an indefinite sabbatical (even though I am not on their payroll during this break, but I'm okay with it).

In reality, I returned to my self and asked if this shall be one of my life pursuits, worth pursuing or not.


 

Despite the good pay, flexible hours and fantastic course coordinators, deep down, I was disgusted with the workings of our education system.

From flawed syllabi created by non-educators to the lack of teaching support from schools and university, educators are expected to put up with the BS, churned as the outcome from our nonsensical system.

One of the BS I had to endure painfully was the case of a student who wanted to sue me.

It happened semesters ago when I was marking her assignment. She did poorly and so; I gave her a C.

But she thought she deserved it better (without asking me why she'd fared so badly)

So she pulled the trick like how some entitled, rich kids would.

She called for the University to interfere.

The Uni called, of course. I wasn't in trouble and not going to be because they thought her work was a C.

However, as C-deserving as she does, she settled for a B, without querying what went wrong with her work (red flag alert for grade hoarders. All that matters is the As and not the learning process)

I told the Uni that she should be grateful I didn't give her an F because my C was indeed a lenient leeway.
 

Lecturer - 0, Student - 1

 
All because of the money.

The educators have become their employee. You're obliged to give them better results, just because they're your paying customer. The educators are no longer the nurturer, but the grades provider.

That's when I started becoming more judgmental. As much I tried not too, I can't swallow the bitter fact that as long as you're filthy rich, you can do whatever you want or have everything your way.

And it doesn't seem to matter how they'd get it done. What only matters is that you're certified, notwithstanding the quality of your education.

As much as I want to advocate for quality education, and I still do with my students from all walks of life (and age), I sighed with disappointment and maybe a slight sliver of hope that someday, somehow we can all make a tiny difference to this flawed social order.

The hope that someone out there truly wants to learn not for the sake of her/his grades but sincerely wanting to improve and grow through trials and errors.


 

Final thoughts

 
As an educator, my hope is for my students to become better lifelong learners.

If you've ever gotten a low grade from your lecturer, you should most definitely reach out to him/her and ask why did you do badly in the first place. Take it from there and improve rather than complaining to the Uni.

Obviously, the Uni will do their best to get you better grades for the sake of shutting you up, since you're the paying customer. But this 'privilege' still won't change the fact that you still suck in your work.

At the end of the day, you're still the same old C student, despite the fact that you got a B now.

And as your educator, I'd rather you'd be a better C student, than an empty can of B novice.


 

Too many graduates these days but how many of them are truly great at what they do?

 

Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts. — Winston Churchill

 

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certs to me are just paper... kids / teenagers / young adults now wants to work in places where there are beanbags, coffee machines, grass carpets.

None of them have gone through lives we all have been.

SEMUA MAU SENANG.

Those who are reporting under are all with certs but with lack of ability to influence the ecosystem. Failed to the max...

I am without any certs for that matter... just graduated from hard knocks university of Malaysia...

hahahahahaha..

Take it easy Debbie. Not easy being an educator... my mom is a teacher, thanked God she has retire... or else, she'll be on stress pill.

Tell me about it @carolfung.. This is so true

kids / teenagers / young adults now wants to work in places where there are beanbags, coffee machines, grass carpets.

everybody wants the easy way out with high pay, high life but didn't wanna work hard for it. Thanks for your kind words Carol. Appreciate it...

ps: and I'm glad that your mom has retired happily. Salute to her... not easy being a teacher for many years!

Great story.. but look at the big picture:

  1. Money in what ever form runs the world, and we need to just to survive in our current environment
  2. Look at the other students whom you taught and showed their appreciate to you
  3. I am a mentor for many young adults and kids... many times, I worry too much about them and many of them don't even appreciate it. This is just life and how we probably were when we were younger

True to point one. but money drives a system, but doesn't necessarily make it better. Talents and good people do. It's like doing a business whether you're doing it just for the money, or adding value altogether. To me, i choose money AND TO ADD value :) so if I can't produce decent students, I have failed someway or the other @orangila

In the name of profit and fame.

Question is, would the university hire the students they passed with flying colors?

Exactly ! I'm sure you've encountered plenty of 'quality' students too huh? That's why interviews based on resumes are no longer accurate. Put them to real-time tests.

It is a real shame that the people who employ you would not back you, even though they agreed in your grade that you had given. It would not surprise me one bit that the student will or at least thought about suing the school after they completed their studies, claiming that they didn't get a "properly " evaluated education and were passed on even though their work was sub par . The Uni might think twice should that situation ever take place. Our local K -12 school district had that happen. The school district had to pay for the student to attend a private school, plus pay damages that amounted to over $500,000 USD for pain and suffering from the traumatic experience of graduating without being able to read and write above a fourth grade level.

wow ... that's so sad ... can't believe the situation is even worse than it actually is. I guess it's a world renowned problem and not just in Asia. Like @karinzdailygrind said, it's the generation's entitled mindset that needs to go. thanks for shedding light to this matter...@sultnpapper

I am sure that it is like this in many places, just most of the time an out of court settlement keeps people quiet about the out comes.

Wow. Sueing you for a C @deborism? Hmm the attitude of entitlement is really serious in that social class Huh? I'm tutoring some Datuk and Datin's kids and yeah I get that attitude too. Paid me to wanna see the results of their kids to be on the top, but canceling classes as and when they like until I put my foot down and told them I'm leaving. The children now study and behave goodie good before the parents but not having the joy of learning. Hmmmm when the parents see their results from the exams, they would suddenly buy more books for the children and transfer them to a "better" international school, not knowing the children had to forsake the friendships in the previous school and no negotiation is allowed haha. I'm just coping with them, honestly.

I feel you @happycrazycon and to be honest, I'm not sure if I can stand with that kinda pressure you're getting. Wanna cancel classes yet get As? Well unless you're steve jobs or elon musk, it's unlikely to happen haha! Entitled much? Sigh

Great share, and something people should be aware of. This should be addressed and I believe the tip of the financial iceberg we have created here with our monetary system. Money shouldn't be the boss. Ever.

this is great honest work. I truly agree with you. Many students do their work half the effort just because they know they have the money to back them up. They're not there for the learning at all, but are only after graduating. In fact, one of the saddest things I heard firsthand when I was in school, was from my classmates saying they weren't after getting honors, they simply wanted to graduate. All the while, they would cheat and copy each other's work.

Honestly, I'd rather they learn it well. If she fails, she can ask me why and I'll guide her through. Then she may choose to redo her work and resubmit. That- I appreciate her effort and will award her with better grades if she's up to that standard @kdee916

Am really motivated reading this

Thanks @xaviour i hope so

Haha macam the same thing happen to my ex-Uni, as long as ada money, janji pass with flying colour​.

Cert of degree doesn't mean anything in nowadays

kan ? sigh... students these days. all that matters is where the cert is from. you'd be surprised that most of them don't even know how to research effectively.

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