So much yes! One of the big reflections of this truth that drives me absolutely bonkers is female superheroes. They are all superheroes because they act masculine. I'd love to see a woman be a superhero for being compassionate, nurturing, communicative.
The way the word has been manipulated by the media is so frustrating. Feminism is beautiful and important. In fact it is necessary for our future survival. And you are right that we have to do it together.