Yeah i DEFINITELY hear you there Dan. Work life is driven by so called professionalism which seems to necessitate holding back on any feelings. It's what actually lead to my nervous breakdown reckon - Iwas too scared to tell anyone how I felt because it would make me look 'unprofessional' as if i COULDN'T deal with the job that was overloading me to begin with. That being said, I'm not particularly open with my colleagues as they aren't really my cup of tea anyway, so tend to just get on with things quietly. Balance is probably key, as well as not being too scared to reveal who you truly are because - um DER - you are awesome, I am awesome, so let's just BE awesome.