Yes, you are right. We do have some differences in lifestyle choices but then I feel that no 2 partners will be same in the relation so that expectation would be too unrealistic to have your partner following the same choices as you, how much ever I wish :-) I am hoping that this blow will make him start doing what is best for him, as of now I see that little change but it is all about long term sustenance :-)
Love and Good wishes my dear 💗