Yes @solarsupermama, I guess the weirdos all found each other here lol. I had the same, even as a teen I didn't really care too much about fitting in. I used to go to a school with all these posh kids, children of lawyers, judges, doctors etc. and I kinda made it into a sport to go against them. If one said they hated girls with more than just one earring in each ear, I would have extra earrings the next week lol. The few friends I had accepted me for who I was and that was enough. But you're right, it's hard to find a community that way. I never really needed a community, but now that I'm a bit older (and supposed to be grown up lol) and have kids, that need has presented itself more. So yeah, same here, surprising it manifests in this way.