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RE: Probably The Best Parenting Advice You'll Read! Don't say No! Never praise, complement, or reward. no demands or punishments! The real roots and meaning of NonViolent Communication.

in #ecotrain6 years ago

Sorry, but I am going to have to disagree. I've seen NVC used in really manipulative ways, and I think a lot of it is hippy flavored passive aggressive bullshit. Kids need hard limits and structure without being a complete tyrant. People need to realize the adults are the ones in charge.

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dont be sorry.. its fine to have your own opinion! no one has THE answer. Kids need love primarily.. you can set any limits you like, and you can even do it hard if its needed.. but the way you do it,.. now thats what this is about.. listening to the child, and their feelings is SO important.. just being heard can make a Huge difference. Being on the same level.. wow.. I have worked with total delinquant children in special schools and they are TOTALLY cool with me.. because how i relate to them.. the teachers were fucking HARD on them, full power.. and it was a fucking stupid game that never ends.. until someone is ready to actually SEE the kids and empathise wth them..

thanks for your comment! I know what you are saying, i also just disagree ;-)

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