The Scepticism And Reluctancy That Comes When People Attain New Heights; Know Your True Friends Or Not?

in #dtube5 years ago (edited)


Sometimes we're forced to start questioning the reasons why people choose to be in our lives, we develop a certain kind of scepticism and suspicious as to why a whole lot of people seems attracted to us. Could it be that it's because we've now attained new level? Could it be that they love us nonetheless? Could it be that they have seen the places we're going? All these questions makes us want to authoritatively want to sieve our friends from our not so friends we begin be wonder why everyone seems so attracted to us suddenly and why we're not too of the food chain.
Truth is success attracts all type of people and it isn't our fault, truth is it's normal to develop this scepticism about making sure we're loyal to the right people and riding the fake people. In this video I talk about our decisions and actions when we're surrouded by people we're not so sure about their functionalities in our lives.


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Love the analogy of the fruitful tree... and I kind of agree in what you're saying here.

When you treat everyone under the same umbrella, treat all with respect regardless of their intentions, it becomes clear very quickly who is there only to pick fruit and run/hide to keep it for themselves, and who wants to share in the watering of the tree, share in the fruit and generally be part of growing something positive.

Having said all that, if you have a fruit tree it's not really that much of a burden to share with all; both hoarders and growers... as the tree will always produce more fruit. The analogy can completely for work life, and it's not about letting people take advantage, it's about only not sharing your success with someone if they are actively trying to kill the tree!

Great vlog 👍

Having said all that, if you have a fruit tree it's not really that much of a burden to share with all; both hoarders and growers

I agree totally.

Thanks a whole lot my friend, there will always be different version of people who comes into our life and the fact that we continuously stay fruitful is the reason why we will keep attracting different kinds of people and this isn't really our fault and this wouldn't be a reason why we should keep people at bay because we can't tell their intention.
Yes thank you so much for pointing out that analogy I always use this in my blogs and other to express or explain better my stances I guess I am improving in my videos and ideas and thank you so much for nothing this out I would also like to see your videos like in the past mate I hope you find the chance.

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