VIRGINS AND MASTURBATIONS...help if you can.

Hello friends, how was our weekend? Hope there were new findings about life? As for me I found something shocking. Didn't know a guy or a lady can be a saint or virgin at 25 years. Imagine the shock and surprise in this our present generation. Despite the sexual fun and sweetness, we still have such people at that age as ignorants? I met a guy who actually told me how desperately he needs a woman around him because he was a SAINT.

After being told, I was surprised to learn that what really made it possible this far was due to strict backgrounds which in turn made them to masturbate whenever they feel the urge to feel good. Now this is where I stepped in, telling him on the dangers of getting too used to the act of masturbating because once one gets in getting out becomes an issue just like lesbianism and gay practice. Why masturbate when you can get someone out there to satisfy your sexual urge?

"I never chose this life for myself, I just found myself doing it, just found myself loving it and the times I try to woo a lady and she turns me down, I encourage myself with my act. I know it's bad but I just can't stop it." At that point I couldn't judge him but tried to understand his plight. I tried to envisage myself in his shoes to ascertain how hard it will be to leave the act.
Guess what?

I told him this and he felt a bit disappointed at himself and ashamed of even telling me but I assured him that he shouldn't be because in life, everyone has their bad sides but he was bold enough to identify his and try to correct it.

                              MY ADVICE

Pls don't be too quick to judge anyone because you don't know what they might have been through and why they are so. Also, be diplomatic in your words and try encouraging anyone any day and anytime. And to those virgins out there, I won't judge you but if masturbation is your last resort, pls look for a nice person to help break the hymen that's if you really want to explore your body.

And you can actually change them if you date them. I'm currently dating my friend and he's been a wonderful mate. Felt like sharing this piece of information just to help and educate others who are ignorant and in the dark with no one to confide in.