To those who want to derail

A man no matter how brilliant in the cause, talent and more outstanding, more noble quality, as long as he derailed, that is, slag, the absolute slag. If it is because of fame or money to make a person's quality or root completely changed, then, can only say that his original nature hidden deeper. On the surface of a man's derailment seems to be his status, wealth associated with, in fact, all this is false. A man with poor self-control, a man who can not afford the temptation, a man who can not stand the moral restraint, even if he is not named, he will be the spirit of derailment, and no physical derailment, but because he was poor, so The cost of derailing is relatively high. But it does not mean that money leads him to derail, but he is waiting for the opportunity to derail. If that time there was a piece of meat to the mouth, he will not hesitate to swallow. Fame and fortune at best only to become his accomplice, rather than the mastermind.

Because celebrities derailed things are not uncommon, so many people attributed the derailment of the name and benefit. The wrong lies in the name and interest can not speak, or they will be their own justice: "obviously you fucking want to derail, but also the crime on my head." As a man, I do not want to defend the man, because I am very clear, Friends around, whether it is rich or money will be derailed, but the name of people in the Vanity Fair, so many people to the results and the environment linked together, mistakenly believe that the name and interest led him to derailment. The environment can change a person outside, but can not change the inner, unless it is because he wants to compromise. Lin emotional history I do not know, only her wife knew him well, if he had a little bit by her wife found suspicious things, in today we see his derailment thing, but also follow the logic of evolution only. Many women because love each other, even if the other derailment, but also choose to forgive, forgive the last in exchange for it is another betrayal. A person can change anything, except that his character is not changed. It is true that I believe that people will be overstated, but I do not believe that this small probability can be encountered by many people, otherwise our divorce rate will not go straight, otherwise there will not be so many slag appear.

Write the purpose of this article, the first is to tell those men who derive, even if you are more gold, even if you are talented, even if you are more successful, as long as you betrayed love, betrayed the marriage, in front of you you will always be low ,shameless. Your soul has been tortured, your character has been distorted, your mind has been tainted, you are no longer a complete man. In the face of this material for the community, you can be proud of the money to continue to capture a supermodel and star, but you can not get their hearts, you sleep them, they sleep your money, you just trade. No woman will be willing to live with a miserable man, unless she is profitable. Wake up, those who intend to derail the man, for a moment of joy, ruined you personally established a home, ruined your hard work between the trust, ruined your image in front of the stalwart. You do not just commit a world man will make mistakes, you are guilty of a will make you ashamed of family, friends, wife and children wrong. I am in favor of the single when the flush, but I strongly opposed to the marriage of disloyalty and betrayal. A person who does not abide by the marriage contract, a person who regards the marriage as a game, a person who does not know how to respect a woman, a man of skill, a talent, a halo, and a mistake he has committed.

The second is to tell those who are ready to enter the marriage of women, even if he is excellent, no matter how good you, as long as he had a derailment of the misdeeds, you do not wish he would change again. A man who will derail, in the days before marriage, there will always be exposed to the moment, as long as you are good at observation, you understand the human heart, any details can reflect everything. Many women in the husband after derailing, recalled before all the details occurred, it suddenly came when he concealed those mobile phone information, call records are lies, are deception. First talk about why men derailed after it is difficult not to derail, for two reasons, one is that he has broken through his heart moral line of defense, like a lot of gangsters did the first, will continue to dry the second, because Assuming that the first job will be sentenced to death, then, more than a few games, up to only the death penalty only. More likely to derail this matter, but also less than heavy penalties, derailment costs how low. Second, after the derailment tasted the fresh, exciting taste, he will continue to find out this feeling, to meet their own sexual desire. For these two reasons, out of the track of the people, like recidivism, repeated recite repeated, repeated repeated teach.

The third is to explain the social environment of the bear. A woman in the case of knowing that the other is married, contrary to morality, and the relationship with each other. Lin fame is big enough, here can be decisively speculated that the woman is not in the other side to conceal the situation with their relationship. That is what kind of reason, can make a woman would rather become a small cast aside, but also to climb an athlete. She is nothing more than money, for the name, if only covet the appearance, I think lindane just ordinary passers-by. Because the mainstream values ​​of society changed, the upper class of people, continue to show off the temptation of fame, prompting the bottom of the world people almost crazy want fame and fortune. When the need for less than needed, many people will no longer comply with the rules of the market, become no evil, the sky flying like this voice: "As long as he stood on top, get applause and cheers, the dirty behind will be erased. "Of course, the game behind the super winners, is obvious, we are all this game of chess pieces only.

The above is not only for men, women derailed equally shameful, but it is undeniable that men and women on the sexual views and expectations are completely different, the reason men derailed is a single factor, the reason women derailed , Which also leads to different derailment frequencies. Men derailed most of the sex, women derailed most of the money and feelings for the sustenance. But with the rise of feminism, women no longer need to rely on men to survive, women will be less and less derailed for the money, but men will not because of economic progress, and sexual burnout, on the contrary, the economy Progress, the more open thinking, the community for the derailment of this matter will be more inclusive than before. But the tolerance of society, others forgive can not be compared with another companion of the heart with the child's disappointment.

We can not put an end to each other derailed, nor the right to boycott the social derailment, but we can in the marriage of the door to those who may derail the men shut out. Someone will say that if I knew he would derail, I would not marry him. But it is like, someone to the market to buy food, the same price, it was bought a fresh fish, it was bought a dead fish. No one will blame you do not know how to pick fish, there is no article can be an unparalleled church you practice a fire eyes, and those who say "handsome will derailment", "rich will derailment", "fame Will be derailed ", and so on derivation are nonsense. If someone in accordance with the so-called derivation theorem to choose a man, then, even if the man will not derail because of sexual derivation, but also because of her IQ and derailment.

For a moment of impulse to destroy a woman's loyalty, ruined the warmth of a family, but also ruined your image in the hearts of children, such a price, no matter how much money can not make up the hearts of pain, no matter how much care can not To obliterate the shadow of her heart, no matter how much repentance can not forgive their own sins.

Regardless of men and women, for the derailment of this matter, please think twice, do not let yourself become your mouth in the derailment of the man.