Dump the Douche Who Uses SnatchChat Behind Your Back

A guy who engages on the secretive element of Snapchat a bit too much and takes it too far is not the guy you want to trust with your heart.

On this app everything “deletes,” literally disappears in a matter of ten seconds after you’ve viewed it, including texts aka Snatchchat. It’s all fun and games until your guy starts using it behind your back, chattering the trust you have for him in the same amount of time it takes for that naked pic he just received from a random girl to disappear.

Let's be real, Snatchchat has the ability to ignite douchey behavior on guys, if they are prone to it, of course, like my ex.

He was able to add girls to Snapchat that I didn't know about. He could message them all day long, send them pictures, whatever and I would literally never be the wiser.

It was a little different when Snapchat showed your “Best friends,” but when that went away it became fair game to talk to anyone.

No one deserves the aggravation of constantly testing someone's trust.

Now, In my defense I am not the girlfriend who has ever gone through my boyfriends phone and I am still not that girl. Never have been and I sure as heck never will be. But there’s just something about the fact that I could...

Maybe that’s why he didn’t talk to other girls before the app came along. In the back of his mind he knew if I ever did look at his phone I would find evidence that he was talking to other girls. Is that even the right reason not to do it?

Maybe he was always going to be that guy, but I will truly say Snatchchat increased his abilities to majorly screw up his relationship with me over few seconds ego boosts.

I knew what cheating looked like long before this came about but when there are girls out there sending naked pictures and videos of themselves all the time. Why not wander if your girlfriend is never gonna find out? Snatchchat made it so easy to find that; snatch.

I’m all about loyalty and honesty and I don’t do or like jealousy, but Snapchat brought it out in me, or may I say he brought it out in me through this the app and no guy should ever shake your values.

I’m not saying every guy with snapchat on their phone treats the app as a hookup app, but I know that the next guy who’s glued to the app is not a guy I want to date. Period.