Thanks Feminism for Helping to Fuck Things Up
As anyone who has read my bio before knows, My name is Byran and I am 29 years old. What you may not know is that I am single and am getting ready for that point in my life where I find that special girl to spend to rest of my life with. I am very choosy in who I am looking for . I view this as a quest to find someone who is another part of, a better part of me, and the best part of me. Yes it does sound a little fairy tale-ish if you will.
Anyone my age in the same predicament is probably having the realization I am: Finding the good wife isn't what it used to be. I find modern day women in general to be a little self centered, more concerned with having a career than ever having kids ( which I guess if that's what floats your boat there is nothing wrong with it, but not what I am looking for), materialistic, inconsiderate,etc,etc. If you have noticed this then you may have noticed that these are all traits perpetuated by feminists. Put two and two together , add mass media portrayals of what women should be like and you get to see a huge part of the problem.
How about not have a sense of entitlement just because of gender, be someone who deserves entitlement based on personality.
I know this isn't just a problem for guys either. Women have more trouble finding real men because a lot of potentially good fathers and husbands have done the MGTOW ( men go their own way) and given up on the idea of marriage. This is in large part due to the culture that feminism has created where a lot of guys have said "fuck this" to having themselves hurt by the aforementioned type of woman and have decided to not ever get attached ( ladies we are more sensitive than we let on).
Pardon my language but for all the feminist women who still desire an alpha male you have one problem: Real men wont take a strap-on in the ass literally or figuratively. To the beta males I say, man up , stop acting like bitches and helping to perpetuate this crap. Enjoy your beta males feminist women.
If a traditional gentleman (or me) were to write a dating ad it would look something like this: Strong, reserve, kind, reserved, gentle,intelligent, a little brash at times, ready to defend loved ones, open doors for significant other, ready to give life to protect family and be open and vulnerable to one special lady he was made for and who was made for him seeks, kind , sweet, loving, gentle, intelligent, nurturing, supportive, one who will be strength to her family, hope and support when they are down, who was made for him and who he was made for, who will hold his heart in her hand and let him hold hers, trusting and treating with all love, kindness and gentleness.
I would love to hear comments here about the struggles of others in this area. I know I am not alone.
I wrote a post yesterday regarding my confusion over what the heck feminism even is anymore.
Just like nearly every other article I have read on the topic, I don't see anything relating to feminism in your article.
Sorry you can't find a date, but thinking someone is selfish, because they don't want to have your babies, seems as silly as the posts declaring... I am a strong, independent woman.
This isn't meant to be a personal attack, just a discussion on what is feminism?
I appreciate the comment and I understand the confusion so let me explain. - It is not about finding a date but rather finding the perfect mate-the selfishness and wanting to have children are points that I wanted to be taken as separate-I have no issues with strong, independent women, but rather women who spell their gender name womyn. Those types who think that instead of just going after what they want that they need to replace men and eliminate gender roles and butchering manhood by making men look like beta males who need a woman to keep them inline.- this article isn't really on feminism itself, but rather the aftermath of what it has created in quest of young men to find a significant other. If a woman wants a career and no family, that is fine, I have no problem with that, just the culture that the alternative of a housewife is somehow bad or oppressive is complete lunacy to me.
Ahhh, Understood. I saw just the other day, some ladies who want to rename... History to Herstory. I had a pretty good laugh! lol
I live in the US, where feminism has the culture by the balls. I may get married again someday, but not to an American girl.
I hear you. There are tonnes of countries where you can find an educated, independent woman who still makes a way better wife than what you would find the US or Canada.
i find that it is not any one movement or ideology. there are many decent people in the world. the challenge is finding them, or becoming something, that they may find you.
i have an early post, if you feel like reading it. i won't link here, i don't like to be crass. the idea is that, about 90% of humanity are not what is being called on this platform, "valuable content" the idea here is to do your best to increase your value, so when you find someone else of value you are not found to be wanting. become what you want, to paraphrase ghandi.
yes, there are traps. learn how to avoid them. someone said to me recently, "first, you must become a man, only then can you become a god. once you have become a god, the goddess will then, and only then, reveal herself." the rest, it seems, is just chasing the wind. even if you catch it, you will quickly find that what you have caught, is nothing at all, if you are lucky.