comparing yourself to what is out there, is what enables you to honestly evaluate yourself.
this is what results in a healthy self esteem, not this delusion of im fine the way i am, or im not good enough.

this is not about pick up forums. its much more evolved then that.
this article covers a very small topic, which is mens looks and how to improve them.
and what can be realistically be achieved,

do realise that, not every guy that reads my stuff is a pua,
im all about self acceptance, however at the same time, improvement as well.