Thank you for your thoughtful response. I tried to be somewhat objective, as I've had a lot of unpleasant experiences in the past with dating and men in general. Having grown out of a traumatic childhood, my self-esteem, self-image, and sense of self-worth as a young adult was very negative. This didn't translate well in romantic or intimate situations. But I've also learned from those experiences and made many personal adjustments.

These adjustments have included: Reviewing my own values, reflecting on my emotional reactions, considering alternative perspectives, and changing my behavior.

Making a woman smile doesn't make a great man, but it's certainly the byproduct of one. :)