Dating Journal Feb 11 2018

      So I was in this Christian dating site.  I received 2 replies, although, my pics were already removed and I put a disclaimer that I was not available.   One said, sorry for replying late and they already found someone and it looked like I found someone too.   The other said my grammar was not good enough.  The first, I wish her well. The second I wrote, I took English 101 in college, I don't necessary correct my grammar intentionally sometimes.   I do that, to just to test who would read it.  To see if the message is more important or how it is given.  I told it could be a test on her, but it also could be a test on me, as she saw it that way. 

        There was a part that bothered me a bit, on the second one.   I told her, that it's better to see a person in heaven than marry the person if it helps them in and I hope to see her there.  I wonder if that is appropriate to say.  It's up to the God above to decide who just made it across.  So I do  not want to say she isn't going there, I don't know.  I don't know her per say, or did I received any sense from above.   I should of just say wish her well, who knows who is really online.

           From looking at all the replies, I don't know about the site.  It makes me feel that it's a setup, where they want you to feel there is a possibilities if you continue on.  It's strange, to  tell someone that they found someone after a while later.   

              I should add here, I'm re-reading Element of Style, to try to bring back some of  the memories  for grammar protocols that I had in college.  It's different when you start writing a blog, you may forget some of the rules.  Although, I never remembered every single rules.  

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