13 dark life lessons to wake you
People just die you know? It’s unpredictable that way. But you’ve got to simply live and try to be happy anyway.
The people who appear overly nice usually have an ulterior motive, which makes them essentially not nice at all. Just learn to be wary of such people and their bullshit.
You’re going to fall out with your friends whom you thought you’d be friends with forever. Why? Because people and circumstances will change over time. Don’t worry though. We all have to move on. Just be glad you’ve had the experience to have that friendship.
Infidelity is common as fuck today. People cheat. A lot of them do. Even the ones who are married with kids. Stay away from such people and don’t buy into their bullshit. Love with all your heart in your own world instead.
There’re many entrepreneurs who are merely marketing themselves to be good people when they’re actually not. This is very common in the self-help space. It’s all marketing. Everything they say or do is specifically designed to make money only. Learn to be wary. It gets easier after a while.
Life is unfair. Period. But don’t waste your time lamenting this. Just do your own shit and be happy.
Health problems just come randomly whether you like it or not. So just do your best to stay healthy. Make sensible decisions every day. Health first. Everything else can wait.
Money does matter. The people who say it doesn’t are either already rich or lazy bums. The bottom line is whether you want to chase it or not. Work had, stay happy and attract that shit instead.
Looks do matter. Because people are judgmental creatures. Don’t be one of those who keeps arguing that looks don’t matter for the sake of arguing, though. It does matter. Work on yourself by caring for yourself. A good first impression anywhere will take you a long way in life.
10)People lie.
Some religious people are just full of shit. Hypocrites, you know? Basically, they’re toxic, so just stay away.
Even your parents may not be suitable people in fulfilling some of your needs, at all. But they’re trying their best. You’re going to have to stop blaming them eventually and watch out for yourself.
There may be times when you feel love is a lie. But these are lessons that will take you a long way in life.
source: Alden Tan