I ignored all the outrage and gave her a look just out of curiosity. I found that after listening I already talk to my children before I change them. I treat them with respect and love and hope that they understand what I am trying to do for them.

Hey little (daughers name) lets get that diaper checked/changed.

But the best thing to remember about a dumpster fire is just that burning trash. It cant hurt anything makes a big odor and may inconvenience a firefighter for all of 2 minutes.