It's important to be correct or "right." It's also important to live another day, to keep on fighting. We have to be smart, and due diligence is required when making any kind of an accusation. These should not be done with an emotional or quick decision. But, in this case - yes, I also believe we would be on the side with a "moral high ground." For me, it is important to be able to look in the mirror and know that I did my best, and I gave value to other people and their feelings. If you do this, when things go wrong - for everybody - at least you can feel better about choosing to behave with dignity.