Glad you see it from other's point of view. The gash doesn't need to be on a bump...bruises and bumps go away...usually with quite the colorful display for us of a lighter complexion...man I have had some beautiful bruises in my time ~smiles~ just show the gash...don't wanna see yer butt man...and get someone to video it...gotta be someone you know there that's got a few minutes to spare...or why bother travelling at all? How about one of the baristas at the Starbucks you frequented?

Just try'n to help Ben...checked out the link to your fund...wish I had a credit card...cause if I did...I'd definitely "kick a buck" your way and challenge others to do the same.

Know this my friend...yer still alive so you're just getting stronger...this'll be a non-memory/event in 5 years. <3