It is painful to lose your love one,i mean someone who is very close to you.i remember when my cuosin brother died,when he was alive,he promise me that i will finish my university without lacking anything .But when mr.death came,all the promises he made to me was aborted.
He is everything to me, when i was crying,i ask him to come back,but it is not possible again. Lossing someone you love will make your activeness to come dawn and before you recover your self,it will take a long time,expecially if that person is a hero in the family,kindred,community, etc. My cuosin was the head holding the finicial key of the family,but we lost him and everything colaps .lossing someone you love,is like comming into a new world where know body understands your language,if you lose your good partinner,you have to start afresh to see if you can find someone like him or her,bcause he or she understood you well. Love simply means "understanding betwin two persons" ,to lose that person will affect your phisical and spiritual life.