I am rational. Perhaps because I am sober, like they say Dutch people are but it can also be a result of the Spartan way I am raised, the molesting and abusement.

Hard to say what is better. It too comes with it it is not good. Too emotional is a big burden for yourself but also the people around you. Being rational, seeing the things as they are is more my style. It means I no longer buy a bunch of excuses, do not count on and rule my own life. It saves me a lot of stress. By the way this does not mean I do not feel empathy for people. I think I am a realist. I wish you a great day. 💕