"I AM SORRY" CONTEST/WIN 3 SBD!!!
Hello Steem Fam!
Hope your weekend was great? Mine was great and I am so excited because today, I would be hosting my first contest on the steem blockchain. This I would say is just my own little way to give back to our awesome steem community.
You see, as children,one of the things we were always taught to say is "I am sorry",but lately I been wondering why some folks will never they are sorry even when it is obvious that they are wrong. When our actions,attitude or words hurt someone,some of us will tender sincere apologies but some people will never do.
So, here is the contest;
• Tell us why some people will never say Sorry even when it's obvious that they are wrong.
• How do we handle friends or people that will never say they are sorry?
• What is the importance of saying "I am sorry"?
Would really love to hear your thoughts guys. No plagiarism, just give us your best thoughts about the issues I raised.
Anyone is eligible to participate.
Prize for the contest.
2 SBD will go to the best entry.
1 SBD will go to the 2nd best entry.
I may increase the number of winners depending on the response this contests gets and the post payout.
Rules for the contest;
• Upvote this post.
• Resteem this post for more visibility.
• Follow me @kweenbrand.
• All entries should be made as a comment in the comment section of this post.
Deadline is the day of this post payout.
If you fail to follow the rules, you won't qualify for the prize.
This contest is educative and I know anyone that will follow through will sure have something to learn.
So guys, what are you waiting for? Let the contest begin.Let's share our knowledge and learn from each other!
Thank you so much!
Much love,
@kweenbrand
Mainly, this happens with people who are very proud, so it is hard for them to say sorry, as a result of this it is very likely that these people are resentful, apathetic and have very few true friends.
Apologizing sincerely shows that this person is a mature person, because not everyone accepts their mistakes, and even more says "I'm sorry".
• How do we handle friends or people who will never say they feel it?
With this type of people, there is to be forewarned, and clear that they will never accept their mistakes, so we just do not disappoint ourselves and in general have such an intimate friendship with such a person, because you can have many disappointments.
• What is the importance of saying "I'm sorry"?
A simple "I'm sorry" does not matter at all. A sorry is really important when the person who apologizes understands his mistake, think about not committing it anymore, because if you make the same mistake and the "I'm sorry" has no value.
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Amazing Idea Kween! Well, here goes my opinion;
I think that most times ego is the main culprit when it comes to not apologizing. In as much as saying sorry is practically the first thing we learnt as kids while growing and developing our characters, we may have somehow picked characters which aren't necessarily the best and have somehow interfere with the first values we learnt. Egoistic people find it hard to say words like "I love you or I'm sorry", which is quite sad if you ask me.
There are people, however, who don't apologize because they believe apologizing will make them look vulnerable and too emotional than they want to appear. For others, they fear that when they accept their wrongs and apologize, it paves way for more accusation or blames from the person they are apologizing to. The reasons really are much! I believe it might just be a way of "protecting" themselves from what doesn't need protection. What apologies do is strengthen and mend relationships, who need protection from what will make relationships between friends, families, couples etc. blossom?
I have learnt to tell myself "sorry" even before people that wrong me apologize and it has gone a long way in helping me to care less about people apologizing to me or not. Sometimes friends might hurt us without meaning to or maybe they don't understand how important it is to apologize, I try my best to let them know but when my effort seems futile, I just forget it. We can't force them to change, but we can at least help them grow.
Well, I think apologies are an extremely important part of any relationship. It opens an opportunity for forgiveness which in turn brings about reconciliation and a peaceful coexistence. It also makes it easier for the person that had been hurt to deal with issues. A world where no one apologizes will be one full of chaos and sadness, which isn't what our world should be like.
It not all about who is right or who is wrong, it is about staying peacefully and making others happy as well, apologizing won't costs us much, but it gives us back a whole lot of benefits. (hope its not too long, I dunno how it ended up this long. lol.)
i really ideal ur conception and totally agree with ur line of thought, this was a great entry to read.
Yeah? Thanks so much @moonprincess!
pleasure
Thank you for your entry!
It's my pleasure!
Why some people will never say sorry?
Cuz they're not even nice to themselves.
How do we handle friends or people that will never say they are sorry?
We should avoid them
What is the importance of saying "I am sorry"?
A person of no Importance is a musical with music
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#Question : Tell us why people will never say sorry even when they know they are in the wrong?
#Answer : hmm i think there are two factors that answers to this question, one its peoples pride that stops them from saying the word sorry , they feel like its something below them to apologize for the wrong that they did , even when they recognize that not saying sorry might just damage the relationship between both parties. the second factor is that they truly believe that its naturally obliged for the other to forgive them without them apologizing, or they just randomly think that the relationship will continue and they dont have to apologize or anything.
##Question : How do we handle friends or people that will never say they are sorry?
##Answer : It truly depends on the importance that person is to you, and what the deed they did was, but i think more often than not , without even them apologizing i truly forgive them from the depths of my heart because i would hate for our relationship to be ruined.
###Question : What is the importance of saying im sorry?
###Answer : okay so you might get people that will say apologizing does not reverse the damage done or the hurt incurred and it cant heal the wounds created. but the importance of saying im sorry which is sincere is that 1 you show the other u truly care about the relationship and do not want to ruin it, 2 you recognize and admit to ur fault and are guilty but wish to mend the others feelings.
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Interesting!
Thanks a lot ma'am for your support and for coming around! Much love😀😀
Thanks too! Enjoyed thinking about it. Helps you appreciate it more :)
People tend to not say sorry when they are wrong because of pride. Pride is the only reasonable cause of that. I mean, why shouldn't you say sorry? Even when you're aware that you're wrong? You must have an element of pride inside you to be that way.
Secondly, people who never accept their weakness tend to be apprehensive about saying sorry. It's more common with people who see themselves as 'the most upright'. They feel they are always right so they wouldn't say sorry went they go wrong.
I must say at this point that it is very wrong to have the mindset that 'saying sorry is needless'
Apologizing when you go wrong is the virtuous thing to do any time any day. When you Apologize for your mistakes, it enhances the relationship between you and the second party. It builds up the very bridges that lack of tendering apologies would destroy. And again, it is not just only about saying sorry. One has to make amendments after apologizing for his or her wrong deeds.
Thank you for your entry!
Thank you ma'am.
Why some people will never say sorry?
Due to they know they are wrong
How do we handle friends or people that will never say they are sorry?
Say sorry to them when you are wrong
What is the importance of saying "I am sorry"?
due to tomorrow you may not have the opportunity to do so and admitting you are wrong will help you not making the same mistakes again
Why some people will never ask for forgiveness?
Because they do not want themselves, they do not have self-esteem, they do not self-respect, therefore, they can not value someone else.
How do we handle friends or people who will never say they feel it?
They are not friends ... they are unhealthy people for your life and mental health.
What is the importance of saying "I'm sorry"?
Just saying "I'm sorry" shows education, culture, common sense, humanity; qualities of great importance nowadays.
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