The day I realised that my marriage to my husband @shai-hulud was not going to be like that of my parents and their parents.

He had proposed a year earlier and the big day was soon to be upon us, I was having what some would call cold feet but upon future reflection was fear of patterns repeating itself. Coming from a family of divorce and knowing how high the rates were my anxiety ran rampant fearing the worst.

Looking back now five years into marriage, getting married was amazing but knowing that that marriage would last and that I would be loved by the person I loved forever as we were nothing like my parents or his parents, we were our own person and we loved in our own way is my happiest memory as it set in motion everything after it.

I have never found one as awesome as him, he is by no means faultless, as are none of us but he accepts me for who I am no questions asked. He is truly amazing and I am often reminded of how right my decision was to marry him. Wanna know why click HERE

Happy Valentines Day!