Have you ever pondered on the need for conflict, it's benefit (if any) and the beneficiaries? Have you ever asked why man always have conflict?

If we are already occupying a space, why the clash for more?

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Man has always been ambitious through the ages. In the actual sense, the natural man can't be satisfied by mere having more. It's a healthy thing to desire for more, improve yourself and be influential in your space. But the problem is in trying to deprive others while doing so.

conflict arises when one seeks to deprive another and in each clash there's always the greedy party.

The clamor for more money, land,houses, position, popularity, fame,friends and recognition has plagued humanity over the years. The question is, can any of these satisfy? I have never seen a man that doesn't want more.

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In every conflict, the stronger always acquire more, at the expense of the weak. But if we make people cry over our gain, we are all losers. If we make people lose their homes, children, position, money, etc to us, we are all failures.There's no gain in making another person suffer.

Each day we hear of violence, wars, killings, genocide, betrayal, fraud, etc. Peace gradually eluding humanity in different countries. People are eager to kill, even when it's not worth it.

Let us disagree but not fight. Let us save lives, not kill. Let us know we won't live forever, though we own all the earth.

No beneficiaries

If we say we benefited in inflicting pains on people, we lie. In the midst of violence, trust is destroyed. We become suspicious of each other and living in fear is inevitable. Look at a man who has no conflict with another and the man who does, there's always a marked difference.

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When I grew up, I witnessed the fights for farmlands in our locality. Men against men, families against families. Immediately there's a family dispute, every member of conflicting families became enemies, even when it's only two people that were involved. If children from opposing homes meet, no greetings are expected.

It was always annoying to get to school one morning and you can't sit with your friend again, you can't greet, you can't complete the assignment you had previous day together, simple because you were told just yesterday that your friend's family is evil. That's so insane!

conflict between families deprive children from this

But that's how insane conflict can become. In such scenario, we might both fail the school test because conflicts in our families didn't allow us read together again. Conflict separates us. Conflict makes us lonely. Conflict makes us cry. Conflict makes us lose trust for each other. Conflict makes us abandon our love ones. Conflict take us away from the embrace of people that really care.
Disagreement should never be allowed to trigger violence.

There's nothing to die for on earth, that we shall not eventually leave behind. Let us abandon hatred and rather love.

Let us embrace peace and discard the thoughts of violence against people.
Let us be satisfied with what we have and only pursue our ambitions without stepping on toes. The world is large enough to contain us all.

Spread the word of peace and let the killings stop.

In Nigeria, the middle east, Yemen, Iran, etc let us embrace peace and live together as one.

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Let us have a token of peace!