No Matter How Hard Life Gets, Never Give Up!

in #confidence7 years ago

When someone or something comes into your life and it feels too good to be true, it usually is! Ride the wave of feel good-ness out for as long as it last. But be prepared because it can end just as abruptly as it started.

Dont be bitter, accept status quo, evaluate what you've learned and keep it moving. Life is about packing as many experiences into it as you can. Some of the experiences are just what we needed to advance us to our next stage of growth and maturity. Accentuate the good and release the bad. Your horizon is still in front of you!

Recently I decided to make an epic change in my life and move from California to Arizona, My decision was twofold, first I'd be closed to family and friends, secondly I'd reduce my cost of living so I can now save, invest and enjoy life. I arrived in Chandler on September 21 at 7pm. I slept on the sofa and the next morning teamed with my brother and wife to set up and organizing my bedroom.

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It's coming together!

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The furniture and clothings are organized and in order. Now to tackle the two or three boxes containing mail, files, what-nots, pictures, handwritten notes, in other words the tedious process of deciding and taking action on each piece.

Although I dreaded this phase it turned out to be quite rewarding. I tossed everything that didn't positively contribute to my happy, loving, healthy lifestyle. That, in itself was rewarding and offered me tremendous joy. No matter how hard life gets, never give up!

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A lot of the things in these boxes, I've bought with me through three marriages. Ludicrous, right? Can you imagine the burden of carring around negative energies from your past relationships for 40 years?

This process allowed me to discard things and release energies that no longer served me and I kept what made me happy. Happiness is our Birthright!

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Life is a school, a school of real life experiences designed to teach us lessons. Once a lesson is mastered you will never have to repeat it.

If you fail to learn the lesson it will show up again, in a different situation, appearance or body type but non the less it's the same lesson. When you notice a recurring negative situation in your life, sit quietly and focus inward, ask God what is this experience designed to teach me? No matter how hard the lesson may be, when it's revealed do it! This way you advance to the next lesson, oh yes there will be others. Life is about progression!

My mother taught me, "Nothing fails but a try" So through out my life I have tried and failed at a lot of things. One of my husbands tried to use those failures as a club to kill my motivation and cause me to doubt my capabilities.

However from each failure I learned value life skills and lessons which helped me mature into the powerful women I am today!

All this to say, if you keep items, energy or feelings from past relationships in your heart, you're blocking all the good that the Universe holds for you. Let it go, get your foot out of the door, because your future will not come full circle until you close the door(s) of your past! Letting go feels so good and free!

So now, I face my future one day at a time as a happy, whole and complete Being! I know, if nobody loves me, not to worry, because I am abundantly love by God! The greatest love of all, I need no other!

I am so glad to be done with this move because now my life is organized and running like a well oiled machine. Remember "No matter how hard life gets, never give up!

Ahh.... the move is complete, what do you think?

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Regular decluttering & simplification can be very satisfying. Your room looks great! All the best for what you are going to focus on next!

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