**In real life**

There is always this urge to measure up and either be like or better than ones "Mate" or Peer, this is usually the pursuit almoat immediately after secondary school when all Classmates go into rhe world in different directions.

That time comes when some have become;

• Doctors
• Nurses
• Engineers
• Pilots
• Bankers
• Successful business owners
  And the list endless.

In another Direction, some have gotten married, evem some have randomly gitten pregnant and by chance now comfortable while a couple others are still believing God for a suitable suitor to walk the forever journey with them.
While a host a busy running their higher degrees master and Phds, some are lying sick in bed, and sadly, we never bear in mind that a host who might have also died.

Some have managed to secure admissions in the higher institutions of learning, some might never be able to.

Some time ago i happen to discuss with my Dad and he said something that struck me and then i simply told him I don't have mates and what if i probably woukd have died by now.
Life wil always throw us lots of shit, its wether we wil let it hit us or not that matters.

So as i was saying concerning my post;
Some have become directors and a few others now company's CEOs.
How you feel go a long way in affwcting how you treat these folks when you come in contact with them, when it seem as though tey are accomplished and you are not. So many thoughts filter through your minds, forst you think Oh I get it God has not be fair to me

Howbeit, we never put those we meet on the street into consideration? those who are on dirty cloths still hovering the street for survival. Do you still feel this bad about yourself or...?

The feeling of jealousy is natural somehow when you feel that some of your "classmates" are doing better, but yours truly its not necessary. There is no need for regrets. we are all on different path to greatness.

Some might have arrived befroe and after you but which ever place in the race you find yourself, do not relent in your resolve to get it right. Life is no competition and do not be in any haste to make a point.
Life is like reading the same book but we are on different chapters individually.

Value everything God bring into your life, Love God, trust him and follow his lead always. For with God all things are possible.

Life is full of uncertainties, You who is uo there never forget to give a helping hand to those who are down, the hand you pulled up today may be the hand to hold back up in place tomorrow.

Thanks for reading.
Elisedaniels