Self respect does not come from lack of cloths or not it comes from being authentic. being the flirty plastic girl would eat your soul so don't do it. Some times we all ask ourself if we would not be happier if we conformed to the expectations around us, but in the end if we venture int it it becomes very clear that it is not life at all and the people we meet in the mask love the projection. That kind of love makes us hollow and hurts even more then being alone. Keep doing your thing and think about what I said about creating an adult platform because it could be the next big thing in porn ;)