Did you see them around you too?

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There are some people around us making comment every action you take. Their comments are just like absorbing your all of energy and leave you weak and tired.

Why are they doing this? What is their purpose? I don't know if they are doing this consciously or not. However, it is very heart breaking and limiting people.

You do say something to your friend and then get excited about your idea. Suddenly one of those energy absorber appears and says something negative about your idea. All excitements are gone.

Now what are you going to do about your idea? if you make an action, you always remeber those negative words. Or you have now very low energy to continue about your idea.

What you can do for those kind of energy absorber is questioning about them. You have to make a decision and make an attempt. You have to decide if the negative comments are real or not. You could question those people and check their success. Then you see if they realy mean it, or it is just their habit to behave like this all the time.

When you create a filter for those kind of energy absorbers, you could decide your attempt easily. Creating your filter is about designing check list for them.

• Question their past success

• Check if they have any background in your idea

• How the person behave when you succeed something

• Jealous degree of the person

You could add more criteria according to your situation. We have to avoid these people and continue in our path.
You know when you are successful from that idea, they are the first people clapping you and saying that I knew that.

No they did not know you were going to be successful. Even they tried to limit you before your action.

I am bored from these guys and now on ignore them. Pressing mute from my life and walk in my way.

You do the same and follow your path if their advice is not sincere and benefit for your own good. Today world is spinning faster even and life is getting shorter. We have to clean some dirty people from our lives. They do not have a right to block you and take your energy.

My anger is now getting low level. I treat my blog as a diary but I needed to this.

Make your comments about these people and vomit the posion inside of yours.

I am @societyengineer and I will fix the society 🤨