Communication made simple. What to (really) hear when people speak, two things only
The mental complexity of communication, within the heart is reduced to these two essences (which are really one):
Regardless the sweet words they speak, people who feel calm inside, at peace with themselves or in love, they really say "My heart is open, I am a river of love".
Regardless the bitter words they speak, people who feel troubled, confused, frustrated or angry, out of love, they say "My heart is closed, I am NOT a river of love, and it hurts."
Do not indulge yourself in hearing anything other than these. You will get trapped, tired, bored, frustrated, even ill.
Only one correct response, on your part : "I hear you. Really. With all my heart."
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listening is a discipline...no matter how enlightened you are! lol everyday is a struggle to be in the moment <3 You nail it, @andreeagarden! :-)
Oh, you are so right @robyneggs, there appears to be an intricate connection between the moment's presence and openess of the heart and the state of unconditional happiness.
"But Father Reason says: No need to announce the future. This now is it. This. Your deepest needs and desires are satisfied by moment's energy. ..."