为什么有的人活的苦爱的苦。而有些人却很舒坦？

并非技巧差别，而是重点不同。你把爱情当人生重点，那一定很累很苦。而如果把自己放第一位，处处让自己变更好，那爱情会轻松自在。你够好，一切都会有。不够好，就要靠别人恩赐。。所以，去祈求爱情，还不如让人求着爱你。

Not a skill difference, but a different focus. When you focus your love on life, it must be very tired and bitter. And if you put yourself first, everywhere to make themselves better, that love will be comfortable. You are good enough, everything will be there. Not good enough, we must rely on the gift of others. . So, to pray for love, not as good as asking people to love you.