This to your people, please deep friendship for a lifetime

Some people say: with people, start from the appearance level, respect for talent, in character, for a long time than kindness, and finally character.
The more people you meet, the more you realize that human nature is complicated and you need to be careful about making friends.
If you meet these four kinds of people, please be friends for a lifetime.

*People who speak out
What is the most important thing in meeting people? As far as I'm concerned, love comes first.
Such people, they don't like those who want to steal.
Will not care about the trivial of the past, and dare to speak out when confronted with injustice.
In the TV drama "Dream", a storm causes heavy damage to the entire city of Tokyo.
Zhao Paner's tea house was destroyed, the whole pier was baptized by wind and rain.
Pond Coil as a pier outfit, once the wind and rain, he led his men to clean up the pier and river.
At this time, the official in charge of the dock came straight over to ask for punishment.
A few words are not happy, and let the pond Pan lick the mud on his shoes for him, or kill him.
Chi Pan had to kneel on the ground and listen to his abuse.
Everyone around was so afraid that no one dared to say another word.
At the critical moment, Zhao Paner rushed to help the pool coil said a word, the dock suffered loss responsibility in the officials, not the pool coil.
Pond coil this to escape an innocent insult, and therefore saw zhao Paner side of justice.
He immediately put down the holiday between two people, take the initiative to make friends with Zhao Paner, talk about cooperation, please Zhao Paner three sisters to help him manage the restaurant.
In the end, they not only managed the restaurant well, but also became very good friends.
Life is a journey full of uncertainty. Everyone has peaks and valleys.
When you go to a narrow place, you especially need someone around you to speak up for yourself.
The passers-by of life come and go, in the hot and noisy time of the flowers are everywhere, and the critical moment can speak out but few people.
Such people tend to value friendship very much. If you can meet, please make a deep acquaintance.
Not only will they speak up when the chips are down, they'll elevate your game.

*People who are willing to give up
People often say: the world is in a panic, but a few pieces of silver.
When it comes to self-interest, most people want to take advantage of themselves.
And truly open-minded people, often will put aside these private interests, willing to let the benefit of win-win.
Read such a story:
One blogger recalled that when he was a child in his hometown in the countryside, the yard was all fenced with bamboo.
One day when he came home, he saw his neighbor quietly moving his fence.
As a result, the neighbor's yard is bigger and his own yard is smaller.
He ran straight to Grandpa and told him.
Unexpectedly, after grandpa knew this, not only did not go to the neighbor theory, but also moved the fence to the side of his yard.
Confused and angry, the blogger peered at the fence through the window.
An unexpected scene occurred, and the neighbor was surprised for a moment when he saw the position of the fence.
The neighbor not only moved the fence back, but also moved some more into his own yard.
After this, no one touched the fence anymore, and the relationship between the two families became better and better, and sometimes they sent food and drink to each other.
There's a lot of this kind of minutiae in dealing with people.
Some people always consider their own interests, you repeatedly give in, he feels granted, and such people, inevitably uncomfortable.
But there are also people who are willing to take the initiative to yield profits, do not care about small things, and hope that everyone can get a win-win situation.
People who are willing to give up profits are often more open-minded in their hearts and regard relationships as more important than personal profits.
If you can meet, please make a deep acquaintance.
Not only do they contribute to your inner broadening, they also add to the comfort of our lives.

*The carbon messenger in the snow
As the saying goes: icing on the cake is easier than providing charcoal in the snow.
Only when you really suffer from hardship do you know who is a friend worth making for a lifetime.
When singer Liang Hanwen was 30 years old, he lost almost all the money he had earned before because of a bad investment, leaving him with only a five-figure deposit.
Not only that, his record company went bankrupt again, and his career also entered a low period.
Also at that time, his mother was ill in hospital and he had to borrow money from everywhere.
These days went on for a long time. At one time, he had no job and his life was full of hopelessness.
At this time, good friend Su Yongkang will have a concert.
After learning of Liang Hanwen's situation, he took the initiative to invite Liang Hanwen to be a guest and sing on stage at his concert.
It is precisely because of this performance that Liang Hanwen was noticed by the record company again and got the opportunity to record again, which led to the later "Seven Friends" and his brilliant music career.
To this day, the two still maintain a deep friendship.
Some people say:
When the sun is shining, many people are willing to lend you their umbrellas.
And when it rains, most people quietly take the umbrella away.
Those who call each other brothers on weekdays are not necessarily true friends, but those who pull you out when you are down must be true friends.
Life is often like this, when you are beautiful, there are many people who know you, and only when you are down and out, you really know the people around you.
When we are in trouble, those who can take the initiative to lend a helping hand are even more valuable.
Such a person, met must be deep friendship.
They tend to be kinder and genuinely wish you well.

*People who bow their heads
Zhihu has been asked: how to see a person's cultivation?
The most deeply rooted answer is: See if he is willing to bow his head after something happens.
The same goes for friends.
In the world of adults, there is often not so much who is right and who is wrong, but who is more concerned about friendship.
My cousin and her friend Snow once had such a story:
They married the same year, had children of similar ages, and often hung out together.
Between three - and four-year-olds, there's always a fight.
Once the two children fought again.
And because of carelessness, snow's child scratched a layer of skin on her cousin's face, and the cousin's child bit her on her arm.
The cousin was very distressed, and left with the child.
And for days, there was no light snow.
A few days later, Snow specially bought toys for her cousin's children, and took the initiative to apologize with the child.
After the light snow left, the cousin's husband earnestly persuaded his cousin:
When two children fight, there is no one right or wrong.
I just don't want to end my relationship with you over something like this.
Between people, it is inevitable that there will be friction on some things.
People who are willing to take the initiative to bow their heads are just looking at feelings as more important than face and willing to put down their concerns.
Such people are often more self-disciplined and pay more attention to the friendship between each other.
No one in this world has the obligation to be good to others, it is just the character of some people.
Meet these kinds of people, please be grateful, and keep them in your life.
With people who speak out, you will have a better pattern;
Get to know people who are willing to give up, you will be more open-minded;
You will be more generous if you get to know those who help you.
Intersecting with people who actively bow their heads, you will be more self-disciplined.
May we all be able to read thousands of sails, cultivate ourselves, have deep friendships, have old friends!