What women want in a man

While women don’t care whether or not you are naturally ‘good-looking’, they do care about the way you present yourself to the world. And while men tend to overlook aesthetic details, these things play a major role in creating attraction with women.
So if you want to impress a woman with your appearance, take time and show you care about the way you present yourself to the world. Make sure you’re well groomed – trim your fingernails, get that hair under control, and wear clean, wrinkle-free clothing that fits. Show that you’re a guy who takes care of himself and has his life put together and you will become more attractive to women. (For more on how to attract women with you appearance check out the
How to pass a woman’s test
Women will actively test a man to see if he has the confidence and integrity that women want in a man. By testing, she can see if a guy is for real – or if he’s a low-value guy just hoping to impress her.
For example, let’s say you start a conversation with the girl by using a little banter and she responds “that was the lamest thing I’ve ever heard”. Insecure guys who just want to impress women may be taken aback – and either slink away in shame or get mad and call her a bitch. The interaction will then end as these low-value guys have filtered themselves out.
To pass her test and show you’re the kind of high-value guy women find attractive, you’ve got to show that you were never seeking her approval in the first place. The way to do this is to simply acknowledge her comment but keep the conversation with the girl moving forward. Perhaps throw out more banter (“you know, you never did get my sense of humor, I don’t think this marriage is working. We need a divorce”) or just move on completely (“yeah, it was kind of lame… So anyway, what do you think of the band that’s playing?)
How men and women view sex
As a general way of thinking men tend to be more goal-oriented while women tend to be relationship-oriented. This difference in how women think vs. how men think can be seen in how men and women view sex.
When it comes to sex men tend to focus on achieving the outcome – the orgasm (whether it’s getting one or giving one). While that can be true for women, often they are more invested in the experience as a whole and the connection that’s created and strengthened through sex. If a guy is too focused on the climax, he isn’t really present enough to make that connection with the woman and the sex won’t be as good for her as it could be.
So men who want to satisfy a woman in bed may want to focus less on the need to achieve a particular outcome during sex and instead focus more on enjoying the experience itself. Stay in the moment and focus more on how you feel, how she feels, and building on that amazing feeling. Let the orgasm come more as an inevitable by-product as opposed to being the sole purpose of the encounter. (For more on how to improve your sex life and satisfy women in the bedroom, check out the