True and perfect love exists. One need not look far to see it. Where, you ask? Why, it's in everyone. It's called love for oneself. For indeed, you are only truly kind to yourself. You are ever so genuinely patient, generous, humble and unselfish to yourself.

For this reason Jesus commanded us to love our neighbors as we love ourselves. This is the standard we should measure ourselves up to. "How have we loved our neighbors?"