Please Tell Me How to Live My Life
Most of us have no idea what's going on. We don't know which way is up or down or left or right. We're floating through life like farts in the wind, hoping a kind and gentle breeze carries us along. We try to get anything and everything to take over the hassle of having to make choices - be it a magic 8 ball or some "sign from God". At the end of the day, no matter who or what we follow, we are 100% responsible for our choices and anything else that goes on within us. So here are a few ideas on how to get a little better at making choices better.
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Wonderful! Such are wise advices not to grieve retroactively for decisions and not to be too hasty in making decisions at present. I think the most difficult moments are those when we get carried away impulsively, when something comes out of the mouth that immediately causes the most resistance in the other person. It is actually impossible to avoid such things, so one can only deal with them when something has fallen into the well and not to demonize oneself for one's own stupidity and the others with it.
I share your view that we all have the impression that we don't know exactly what we are doing and why we are doing it and how we could do it better differently. However, there are rich sources and such advisors who do not preach or tell us what to do. Rather, they have an open and intelligent and mischievous way of formulating the answers we are looking for. Simply by asking inspiring and disturbing questions.
I myself am involved in the consultative work. I proceed according to the principle of an existing resource. If I notice that the client who considers himself incapable of doing something or is too comfortable doing it himself, I am interested in trying that very thing out with him at the given moment. The first spontaneous reaction is often either annoyance from the client or irritation. If I can achieve a mood in which we can work together, the result afterwards is all the more refreshing. My sources of knowledge and spirituality have grown over the last few years and I take role models who let me formulate my answers when I find it difficult to decide or act on my own.