6 Extremely harmful things that your child is learning in school life. Make him aware to save him from the big loss!

in #child-learning6 years ago

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A baby's brain goes very close to the size of the Adult Brain at the age of 5. Researchers also say that at the age of 5 to 7, a tendency is to develop a child personality, and in many cases a lot of personality develops. Bad habits of the times, without words, it becomes very difficult to utter words. That is why you want your child to come out of the school's sub-divya light. But school has developed some times from some bad habits. Know and be aware of them.


1) Nobody laughs!

There are various types of punishment in our country. Standing in front of the board, holding the ears, holding the whole class standing on the bench, rattan to get in front of the bench, beat on the scale of the scale, jerk with the neck, and give ear mugs. Many punishments give the teachers the kind of shame they want. For example, a student is given ear to another student. If someone gets punished, the whole class rolls into a smile. Teachers do not say anything in the matter of laughing, themselves also join laugh.

The teachers feel good about this work. They think that today if they are ashamed tomorrow the child will do homework. But the child's mind is not so easy. Firstly the matter of punishing the teacher is wrong. These children have a serious side effect. He lost his self-sufficiency in suffering from inferiority. It should be remembered by older people that children have a sense of humiliation, and there is a crime to hurt them. Everyone in the class can not be friends with anyone who laughs. School leaving the school alone has become a lot of trouble because of school missions. And the time goes in with the children in the campus.

Whose smile is not the only, the children who are laughing, but also suffer losses. From the smallest to their head, the punishment of others and shameful circumstances do not laugh at all!

At a very young age, maybe we read three, we had a boy in the class, he was mentally ill. Responding to the question asked by the teacher. Her parents had filled the school with a lot of money. Whenever he started bobbing, the whole class was laughing! I have learned to see everyone by the school that someone laughs if something is different.
One day I came home and talked to my mother about a story about the boy. The mother said to me, "Mother, you can stay in her place, thank God for all that she did not take that test of your father, do not hurt the boy's father, eat! Never laughing at someone who is helpless!"
My mother's education on my head that once entered and did not emerge. Teachers would be surprised, this girl does not smile at somebody! That's why I used to love each other.

I used to tell my mother every incident I had in school. Mother used to listen, advised. This culture should be made at home in every room. Talk to your child every day, whether there are plans, offices, businesses, businesses, TVs, entertainment. How are his friends, how they are using techniques, learn the story. Along with the teacher, the family must be aware of the beatings. If you hear your child be beaten in the class then talk to that teacher and headmaster / headmistress. When you are aware, everyone will be aware of your child. And teach the child the right thing. If grown up, he will not laugh at anyone, but will develop with the attitude of standing beside him.

2) Homework copy, copy from friends!

Nowadays, father and mother are busy preparing for leaked question papers! Do not believe The child does not see the value of their mark for the good mark, and the career! And although many do not do anything directly, do not show much awareness about it.

Generally speaking words to the child at the time of the test:

1) Take a good test.
2) Take the simple question beforehand by handling the difficulties.
3) Write on cold head.
4) End all in time.
5) Look at handwriting, spellings.
6) If the test is bad then see what you do!

There is nothing wrong with the above words, it should be said. But do not write any one as well as the testThat's what I did not hear from a uncle Ani in my childhood. Everyone insisted on diameter good testing. Many aunty once again used to say to me, "Mother, look at me if you can not!" Can you think?

You wonder how your child can improve in this way. And at the younger age, if you see a question from someone, what will happen? But it is true that if he is temporarily good then he will be lost inside. She thinks that chitping is not anything bad. The name of eating on the neck of others is life. It does not matter how success comes. The principle is not important in principle. In this way, life will increase in life, and your child's mistakes will continue to grow. At one stage of life, he will be in trouble, in danger. So ask your child to earn good marks by working hard, not on the other's hard work. This will improve overall life.

3) Expose sex!

Your child will mix, play, fall in love with other gender people in school. So in some cases he must be trained at a young age.
Teach the boys to look at the girls properly, to speak politely, only to keep their adolescents. A woman is a man, her self-respect, she is unwilling to have children in her head. A mother, especially in this role, will have to contribute. It's best to convince women to feel bad. And the father should be very careful so that he treats his mother with respectable behavior.

To give more food to the boy in the family, the boy will return the night to the girl afternoon, such rules can not be kept. Teachers at school "become so naughty to be daughter!" You can not say anything like that. The boys think that they have only the power of dummy and satanic independence. Girls' work is more adaptable and they are better than girls. Such misconceptions do not enter the head of the boys. The rules will be equal. Your little talk, behavior, but she's picking you unknowingly of your mind. So do not be late in the news. No child is born of rapists, if a boy is educated with respect to women at a young age, but after becoming a male, he will not commit crimes like rape, eveying, acid throwing.
Tell the girl children to be careful. Tell a teacher, classmate, brother of brother, and not to a relation with relatives of a distant relative. If someone is disturbed, then at home he would tell. There is no way to be careful when there is a rape of a three-year-old child.

Talking with the child about things that can be uncomfortable, I have to say for him and the healthy future of society. If you are not able to do it yourself, give him the responsibility of having any uncle / mama / phupi / aunt with whom friendly relationship. There were many people guided to a child because of having a joint family in earlier days. Nowadays, all the responsibilities are on job-bound parents. They can not even give time to the child during office hours. I'm afraid of where the matter will take us!

I would like to request that if a child is brought to the world he will not be able to give proper care and time, but do not sit with his parents' title just to please family and society. Those who are saying "take a baby, take a baby", they will not be able to take care of your baby one at a time. In order to care for the child, parents should have some securities. If both of us turn back in the morning, but there is a problem. Whether there is a family in the joint family, grandparents and grandparents, get help with the children. Or give time to the child without a job or a part time job.

Remember, if you bring a child into the world, its good and beautiful life, your responsibility for advanced values ​​is your responsibility.


The last few words of the author:All of the six were not given, because the post was getting bigger. Trying to move the next episode, please read all. Disconnect some important points there.

Oh, the idea of ​​writing comes from an incident. Some years ago I might have read one of my cousins, Sayin, his teacher found homework in the writings of the other two children. In the same place, the three spellings, the same spelling mistakes. Parent calls, my aunt angry fire
The baby too much My cousin was very nineteen and said, "Everyone did it, nobody said it bad!"

I was not at the time of the incident, I heard that this happened on the phone. After laughing at first I was shocked by the matter. In fact, the children will have to first be taught that this is the education they give to the family. But how many discussions about the characteristic aspects? They all copied very simple, they did not understand it is wrong! That's why there was one till the pratakati! That was a small matter. Once there is a rape in our country, the sons of the rich people say they know that rape is a punishable offense! They have done this in the party! The sky fell on the head!
On paper, children watching crime, watching teenage fall. Facebook leaked question papers, love, breakup, drugs, gang, hazardous bike stunts, doing small children! Be surprised The lack of family values ​​is largely responsible for this. The kids are like clay. Once again, they will not be able to change them later. So be careful now!

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