How to detect if your partner has cheated on you? Here're two tips!

Here's something tricky methods on detecting your partner's lies...the Chinese version and English version shown below:

1. 在不同时间，重复问他同样的问题

比如某天他出差开会，回来后你就问他，你这一天就去哪儿了？你问得问题尽量具体一点，比如开会的某个领导长什么样，男的还是女的，多少人一起开会，开会的内容包括什么等等。因为他并没有真的去开会，所以这些东西都要完全现编，当然这对高端骗子来说还是小菜一碟。

但是，如果你过了两周之后，借一个机会再问他这些问题时，他就很难回答上来！因为当初完全是临场编造的，所以因为没有画面感，他很难记住当初是怎么编的。不过你要好好记住他上次的谎言，最好能记在本子上。如果有部分不一致可以容忍，如果领导是男是女搞错了，或者多少人一起开会两次不一致，那就有大问题。

1. 倒叙测谎法

还是借用上面的例子，他出差了一天回到家，你问他今天都发生了什么，几点去了哪，做了哪些事。等他把一天的故事编完，你过上一两天，让他倒着把那天的事情复述一遍，如果他没有真的去开会，那么他要想复述出来就十分困难。

这种方法适用于夫妻双方比较有权威的一方，如果引起对方反感就不好了。建议测谎还是不要让对方看出来为好，两性相处还是信任最重要。

1. At different times, ask him/her the same question repeatedly

For example, one day he was on a business trip, and when he came back, you can ask him where had he been throughout the day? Your questions should be digging into the details, such as what kind the meeting he attended, was the teacher male or female, how many people were sitting in the meeting room, what were the topics... Because actually, he did not really go to the meeting, so these things must be fictitious, of course, it's still a piece of cake for high-end liar.

However, if you have a chance to ask him these questions after two weeks, he will find it hard to answer! Because that story was completely fake, he was hard to remember how the original version he lied. But you have to remember his last lie, it is best to write them down on a paper. Some small inconsistencies are acceptable, but if regards to big mistakes, you should pay attention to it!

1. flashback method
   Imagine he returned home on a business trip, you asked him what happened today, the detailed schedule, including what he exactly did. When he finished compiling the story, after a day or two, letting him repeat what happened that day, but upside down. If he did not really go to a meeting, it would be very difficult for him to repeat it.

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