Well, do you think she really understand what she is doing clearly? Can she really understand your intension? No offense, I don't think you're leading her to the ride direction. If you're trying to teach her about what is authority, how should we deal with authority and so, I don't think you can really convey the message to her. She is just too young to understand that.
Hope that your girl is super smart and she can figure out what you're teaching her.
Good luck!