THE CERTAINITIES OF LIFE(2)

The mouth or the oral cavity whose function include the ability to speak is an important part of the human body. This ability many of us use to express our ideas, intention and even ask questions. Some people misuse this important features that functions with the body by using it to insult, slander or even discourage.

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You have accepted the fact that difficulty is certain? Then you need to learn to accept the fact that people will talk too. Whether positive or negative, people- friends, family, relatives or even acquaintances will deem it fit to comment on the path you have set yourself on.
In whatever you do and whichever way you carry it out, people will always have something to say. There are people who will commend you to your face and appreciate the fact that you are brave enough to set goals for yourself while there are also people who will condemn you. It is a certain fact that people will talk!
Through all the talks- the praises and the condemnations, it is your choice to decide if you will let them affect you. Will you let the ranting and the uproars stop you on your way to success or will you let the few encouragements you have keep motivating you to go for it? Will you keep going because everyone loves what you are doing or will you give up because no one does?
Of course, opinions matter same as experience and advice. But do your best to seek them from the right people. Ask for opinions and learn from experienced people in your field. Do not allow yourself to be demoralized because you lack the encouragement you require.
Your quest is for you and not for other people. Accept the fact that they will talk and some will try to discourage with their talks. But if it is a path you believe in, tread it with purpose and neglect the distractions. People will talk, but you have to do your thing!

There is only one thing in life worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about. Oscar Wilde