The real reason of our yelling. 我们向别人大喊大叫背后的真正原因。

When we are feeling vulnerable, we often end up barking out orders to others, thinking that we are in better control. To many, however, they can spot right off that we are feeling intimidated – an impression exactly opposite to what we wanted to let others know.

Someone with authentic inner strength doesn’t need to lift a finger or open the mouth to yell.

It’s not easy for us to admit to ourselves the uncertainties we feel inside. Next time when you have an urge to shout out orders, take a second and think first. Is the intention of yelling originated from our fears inside? Then take a second to reassure ourselves, all is fine; there is no need to be worried.

If you like this, please

Subscribe

Upvote

Resteem

Thanks!

每当我们感到不稳当的时候，我们常常会向其他人大声发号命令咆哮，认为我们这样做便可以把事情控制得更好。然而，对周遭其他人来说，他们明眼知道我们其实是感到胆怯 - 这个感受正正就是我们不想他人看穿的。

具有真实内在能量的人其实都不需要动一根手指或张开嘴大喊大叫。

我们要对自己承认内心有不踏实感比较困难。所以，下次当你有强烈想大声发号令的冲动的时候，请先花一秒钟的时间先思考一下。大声喊的原意是因为自己内心有恐惧吗？要是这样，那花点时间跟自己内心谈谈，告诉自己一切可好; 没有必要担心，也没有必要咆哮。

如果你喜欢这篇文章，请

订阅

点赞

Resteem

谢谢大家！

Posted using Partiko Android