Do You Hear?

jakecrypto (43)in #busy • 7 years ago

Do you hear?

What does the word mean to hear? It means that we must shut our thoughts and pay attention and tell me how I do that if we are in a constant thought it is not even easy to keep the mind blank

You're right but let's see why it's good to learn to listen

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There are many things that are wonderful in our lives and we pay no attention in any way to be pending always on other things

The human being has the bad habit of never being in the present moment always wants to be in the future or in the past but never in the present and it is something irrelevant that we must learn to focus on what we live today to be able to see the change tomorrow and I can an example That always happens.

I was in college chatting with my friends and we agreed that tonight we should go eat burgers and have a good time.

In my head was the idea of Ooooo SIII burger I have a long time without eating one and that was my thought all day

But I lost sight of what was around me my girlfriend had told me that we had a year of dating and that we should do something special and guess what? I completely forgot and that brought with them a few problems for not knowing how to listen

Listening is very important but we have bad habits we speak 80% of our day and 5% We listen and this is very but very bad we can not continue so we escape relevant details in our lives

So there are a number of tips that can change a bit and see how your life will change completely

1 Attention: This is fundamental in our home as our partner, children and family need our attention and something very important for men.
Since ancient times men were dedicated to hunting and this led us to have the habit of paying attention to a single objective and clear when we pay attention to more than two goals almost always go crazy is for our ancestors that we are so hay man was to change them? Well yes but we must be aware at all times that we pay attention no longer there is the attention to medium when someone speaks you must look in the face and put your body in front of that person and more if your girlfriend telling you how I see this is something fundamental and you evit So many problems in the future said this also apply with the rest of your family.

2 Leave the phone: family reunions have become very dull today if before were so now are worse we live stuck to the phone 24/7 We are hard to take off and understand those people who have an important role in the job and must attend at all times PE Ro Life passes us by the face and we don't know it's really going on we're never at that time we always have the head somewhere else and that's not good

Let's leave the phone in a place and start paying attention as you should have to allocate a time to everything otherwise your life will be a disaster

3 Listen to something that we do not want: we are influenced by the routine that day to day that is always the same and this happens in companies in public services and in almost every place I would say. We have lost the energy of doing something different at least to greet everything has become robotically cumbersome robotic repetitive and forget that we are human and thanks to that?
There are many things we do not want to hear in this case I will not ask you to pay attention but dodges like for example say: Hey I'm sorry but right now I'm busy and will be for another occasion and this also saves you many problems if you do not want to hear P Or please say so that person does not feel bad when you pay attention will be very sensitive people but understand and know the value of listening

With all this you will have a significant change with everything around you and who knows until you become a little more prestigious to hear