You posted a question in quite a different angle.

Perhaps, you can do something out of routine once in a while. Like do something or a few things out of spontaneity or sheer amusement. I know it's a different perspective from what you're aiming to achieve (if I understood it correctly) but my take on this is that because you have set almost everything as a routine, even your "new go-to place", it all seems like a task. Even your home doesn't give you the same comfort anymore because it has become part of your tasks.

Maybe you need something or somewhere fresh just to see and feel something different. Try inserting a small window for spontaneous activities in your schedule. Maybe what you need is not a new routine but a different one.

Hope this thought helps. 😊