Say "NO" to "Bullying"

Bulling is one of the most important issues of these days.
Many people avoid to talk about it forgetting the fact that many other people have been suffering from it from so long. There are many reasons that make people “bullies” and on the other hand these bullies make other weak people victims.

There are so many reasons that make people “bullies” such as people with worst past are easily diverted towards these things, people who are rich when do not get good guidance lead to make groups of people like them and start bullying without realizing that their fun may destroy someone’s life and the list goes on. As there are many reasons that give birth to the bullies in the same way there are many reasons that give birth to the victims of bullying as well. Some of the reasons are as weak family Background, lack of confidence, fear of being ignored and in the same way the list goes on.
We can judge and easily find out many victims of bullying. These victims show different behaviours as compared to normal people. Some of the symptoms as their people are shy, they start crying if they get something challenging instead of facing the problems. And sometime they go to depression and become a silent person like not sharing or talking about their problems to anyone and like that the list goes on.

Here a question rises that at which age bullies can tease a person. Well for that there is no specific age for being a victim by the perpetrators of bulling. Almost 20% to 30% of the children become victim of bullying at their early age in their preschool.
They become a target of their school fellows and sometimes of their teachers as well. So there is no age limit of being a victim of bullying. Bullies not only belong to uncivilized people, even sometime educated and literate people also become bullies because of their bad personalities.
Bullies tease innocent people because they are assure that these people are not gonna retaliate. In this way weak and innocent people become their safe target. When weak people are teased this way, they usually cry and after being continuous teasing when they can’t handle it anymore, these people go to deep depression. Sometimes this depression ends up in a result of suicide. But these bullies are such heartless that they do not even care.

This is not all about what I think about bullying even I have seen such cases where people attempt suicide and sometimes people who can not commit suicide die inside. I have seen people (victims) who killed themselves from within because they stored thinking that they are ugly, useless, coward and have no personalities. Yes! There are plenty of examples in our surrounding. This all not only affect the victims but the bullies as well. These bullies destroy their lives as well. They tend to be these bad habits.

We can stop all this by taking different steps against bullies. Even there are many organizations all around the world working on such issues. We can help our victims by building self-confidence among them and by making them feel respected and loved.