How To Deal With Bullying
I have 3 times bullying and that affected to me so much, I cannot tolerance to that kind of but to be honest this bullying can made me growth well right now and built my confident better. But still I cannot accepted bullying because not everyone can deal with it, some people may suicide because of bullying. It mean Bullying is a big problem and BIG NO TOLERANCE!!!!
The first bullying I got is when I was at Senior High School, that is simple because I wear glasses due to eyes problem reason,but... because I growth up in village so it become problem I appearance look and they called me Superman because of that glasses. That is really stressful for me at the first time, every morning was like monster for me and go to school is a big problem. I cant do nothing but I have go to school, lucky me because I have a very special parent they support me all the way and this gave me to deal with that bullying. what I was do is I never reach to that bullying and just smile whenever they tried to bullying on me and go away. then my confidence grown better.
The second bullying was when I cannot finished my collage study on time because that time I also worked. Many of friend bullying on me but I am confidence enough this time, I never care what they said I just pray to God to give me a better life and confidence to work and in other hand to think about my study. Silent is better the to answer that kind of judgement. And lucky me I got an opportunity to get training abroad for a month and our boss choose me, someone in the office who not finish yet her college. God listen my prayer.
The thirdly was about 3 years ago while I work in some organization, my accent when speak Bahasa Indonesia is so Acehnese accent (Aceh is my mother language) at the first time no body recognize that till one day I was invite to radio for talk show about my activities. there bullying come again to me after long time. they keep bullying on me because of my accent but I never care and refuse that. I am become strong enough after that all experience. All that gave me power to deal with bullying.
So to everyone who get bullying here is some tips from me:
a. Be strong and walk away when someone bullying at you
b. Smile is a nice way to deal with that kind people
c. Control your self to not angry because if you are angry that can make them feel happy, so keep calm dont ( I know this is difficult at that time)
d. Try to write when u get angry so you can push yourself t write then to fight with them
e. The last be confidence because everyone is unique, even you are and always try to find your passion.
Stop Bullying for a peace and better life
