Couple Alex And Bia’s BeLoved Miracles In Portugal
It took me 41 years and a laptop to become a couple and live my miracle, finding my beloved wife in Norway. As I discovered upon this trip to Portugal it is happening much quicker today for the next generations!
Today we have another inspiring story to share with you, the first of many to come!
A 2nd generation blogging couple living the work from home freedom lifestyle in Porto de Mos, Portugal.
Alex Pereira and Bia Gabriel (Daughter to the infamous internet marketer and brilliant online system engineer Rui Gabriel), a young couple who use a viral blogging system to persue their passions and help a growing number of others to live a fulfilling life both personally and professionally.
They are Rui Gabriel’s assistants and Tribo Community members growing together like wildfire in Portugal and Spain.
Here’s a look into couple Alex and Bia’s concept of “The Kingdom” The physical and mental “Safe Space” where they work and can fully express themselves. Implementing a shared and expanding culture of no judgement, freedom of speech, progression and development.
And why they take it everywhere they go…
Seeds of BeLoved Miracles and “Together, Or Not At All” have taken root and are growing strong in this rich online environment for an ever expanding number of couples. In this very moment with you too!
Because you are read this now, I am able to share with you not just Alex and Bia’s story, also the rich and varied stories of a growing number of other couples and their very own BeLoved Miracles.
Couples creating for themselves working from home as part of the modern day online internet business lifestyle.
Do you have the balls to express yourself and live the life of your dreams like Alex and Bia?
What is keeping you from achieving the success that you deserve?
I would love to hear from you in the comments below…
P.S. Here is the interview audio:
https://soundcloud.com/tiandrine/couple-alex-and-bias-beloved-miracles-in-portugal
P.P.S. Here is the full transcript from the interview:
SPEAKER: Timothy
Welcome to this premiere broadcast of The Beloved Miracles TV Network. We are with an amazing couple today and we are in an amazing setting here in Portugal. I’ve had the opportunity over the last few days to visit with Rui Gabriel. Being spoiled in ways, that over time as we continue to produce more here you will be introduced to as well. Today, I have Bia who is Rui’s daughter and I also have Alex the son-in-law. And what they’ve been building together as a couple is what we’re going to tap into today. So thank you. Number one thank you making time to do this. I’m honoured to get to hear what you guys have been building together as a couple. Tell us a bit of the story. Where does that begin?
SPEAKER: Bia
It began ever since we started going out with each other it kind of started straightaway. Alex has a crazy amazing kool transformational story. In terms of like his personality and his way of viewing the world and stuff like that. And ever since the beginning it’s like we knew we loved each other and knew that we were going to build something together. So. When. I started then straight away when we committed to each other.
SPEAKER: Alex
We wanted to grow together. And we wanted to be free together. We wanted to go out and experience the world and start our little nest. So that’s what we wanted to do. And that’s the story, our story starts there in the beginning. When we decided to go abroad and work because here in Portugal it was being hard the market was flooded with everything. So we just decided you know let’s go abroad. Everyone was telling us to go abroad. So that’s what we did and it was a very interesting venture because we developed a lot and we grew together there. We grew together through adversity. You find your strengths. Because we were living hard moments there. One moment we were homeless.
SPEAKER: Timothy
This is in England? London England specifically, Yes?
SPEAKER: Bia
Yeah. We never had to sleep outside because we had friends there who were nice and they gave us rooms. But you know it was what it was right. And the good thing about it was that it gave us the opportunity to really define what we don’t want in our lives. And also that helped define what we do want. So it was after that, it was easy to sort of move through the waves and just do what we had to do right. Eventually in London we started being part of this community and we started learning a lot about the Internet and being free. And we were like…We’ve been talking about this for years.
SPEAKER: Alex
You know what it’s like when you have a job sometimes you just get trapped in your day to day life going back to work. And then at the end of the month you only have this much. So ok let’s try to make do with this. So we were just tired of that and then we found the system and that’s when we decided to invest more in us. In our transformation. Because that’s I think one of the cornerstones of our story. Getting here. Being here and being together and starting to build a business together online which works for us. We didn’t know anything. That was the start of it. And then basically I’ll leave it at that for now. You know it was just an amazing experience. I am very thankful. Let’s just say, in everything.
SPEAKER: Timothy
In what way do you complement each other by working together as a couple? It doesn’t necessarily mean doing the same exact thing. Can you describe a little bit about how what you do that supports each other.
SPEAKER: Bia
Well we’ve had various different dynamics as we started working from home it’s very different being your own boss. It’s different being our own boss and it’s very different than having other people telling us what to do. So we had to find this dynamic between each other and how this would work right. So our first try was, Alex is really good with computers. So Alex is going go full time and really you know get this thing going. And I am going to finance the business with working, right.
So I’m still working at my job and he started working from there and then eventually my dad was like… My parents my family didn’t know that we were living in London. We were like keeping it real quiet and just trying to pull through. Right. And then that month my dad made a bunch of money with the system. So he called up and is like look I heard that you guys are going through some trouble. Do you want to come over and you can work as my assistant? So after that we were like OK. So we got to get really close with the system and with the community and we with everything. And with Rui right. And that gave us a lot of freedom to work on not just the system itself but how people can use the system to their benefit to discover and develop themselves as people and as professionals in whatever area that they’re interested in. Whatever passion they have.
SPEAKER: Alex
So we we kind of like got immersed in this community as soon as we got back here from England we got immersed in this community and the way everything was working and learning about blogs. So we’re learning and doing and helping other people do it you know. So it was like kind of like we’re living the dream right now. You know and it’s been it’s been three months like that since then we’ve been here we’ve been always together.
SPEAKER: Bia
And we do pretty much a little bit of everything. In the beginning we had like separate jobs right. You do this and I do this and you’re responsible for this. But after a while and because we started giving way to expressing our talents in our personal interest as well. So Alex is becoming a hypnotherapist and I’m trying to get my art you know how we we sort of do you know when we help in whatever way we can that’s how we complement each other. So if he needs something that I can help with then I will do it. And he if I need something that he can help me with. Then I’ll do it and it works the same way with everyone here. And that’s the whole basis of working together and building something together. Maybe Alex is the expert in computers but I know stuff about Canva and about social media that he doesn’t know about. So I am going to help him with that and he’ll help me with more technical things you know just you know that’s what it is you know wherever you see there’s a need you know that you can help fill that’s what you basically do. Support each other and just do for each other as much as you can.
SPEAKER: Timothy
What I hear is that there’s no loss of independence. At the same time that you were coming together and building the bridge of a shared way of working together. I also hear that you each were able to still pursue, and you’re still pursuing today, your own interest at the same time.
SPEAKER: Alex
Yes yes. Our having a business together well it’s changed a lot of things, but for the better. I think you know we actually have this “baby,” this little business. That we have always in the background, it’s always there. We grab it. We do things with it. OK now it’s time to change. Let’s change this. Sometimes we go and move on to other projects. It’s just being.
SPEAKER: Timothy And a baby you said.
SPEAKER: Alex
Yes, it’s almost like a baby.
SPEAKER: Timothy
There is a sense of being parents to something you are creating together in terms of business.
SPEAKER: Bia
Yea it’s like a responsibility you’re not going to start something and then you know just leave it.
You know that’s when you become a parent, you want to develop and make it better and better and better as much as you can right.
SPEAKER: Alex
And I think especially when you when you get down to the mission part and the vision when you start it’s really feeling what you’re doing. Like my job is to help people. How kool is that!?
SPEAKER: Timothy
Very cool which is why I’m thrilled to be doing this interview with you because it’s my hope that bringing the stories of couples out in terms of service to others will inspire more couples to find their own expression. Were there any other couples that inspired you guys? Are there any role model couples that are living this dream that you have that inspired you toward your own expression.
SPEAKER: Alex
Just to mention the obvious ones Rui and Melissa. I can’t name any people just like that. So many people have come and gone through our life that I think we get inspiration from.
SPEAKER: Bia
We get inspiration from pretty much anything. You see a couple and the way they work even if you don’t identify with it. That’s what you learn. You learn that you don’t want that right. Or if you see a couple that interacts in a way that you find interesting then you can be inspired by that. We just take from here and there.
SPEAKER: Timothy
And there’s an entire community that has grown up here between Portugal and Spain.
SPEAKER: Alex
Yeah. Oh totally. This amazing system that has brought people together. And it’s really cool because we’re all sort of like minded. You know it’s like as you’ve been finding so far, we kind of think like you you know.
SPEAKER: Timothy
Yea we are a bit the oddballs aren’t we? Compared to how the world looks at these things and doesn’t realize the inherent bridge building quality not just between couples but between individuals. You’re absolutely right my being here for a few days has me feeling just as much a part of your vision and your mission as as probably those of you who have been in it for years and that’s just happened within a few days. (finger snap) So that’s what’s so inspiring to me is how infectious what you guys are doing is and how it truly has grown into what are the numbers now? How large of a community is it now between Portugal and Spain? It’s in the hundreds yes?
SPEAKER: Alex
It is in the hundreds. You know I can’t think for sure and exact number it’s always changing. You know like. It was just last week we had seven seven of those people that we did not know in the past event. That was just the other day. It was just the other day and like it was like meeting people and greeting. I did not know where they had come from. I was just like oooh you are new welcome to the family.
SPEAKER: Timothy
So I’m not the only one being attracted to what you are doing?
SPEAKER: Alex
Oh no it’s like we’re creating a big wave here and I think it’s going to spread and it’s spreading. We can see it clearly.
SPEAKER: Bia
Yes, it’s kool. You can see there’s a lot of good energy. There’s a lot of contribution and collaboration and support. All kinds of wonderful things.
SPEAKER: Timothy
Are there any single people in this larger community that have come together because of this?
SPEAKER: Bia
Yea, at least one case.
SPEAKER: Alex
They are no longer with us. They’re doing their own thing now. That was one of the things they met each other and they started something together which was kool.
SPEAKER: Timothy
So love right there is this thread of love loving what you’re doing, loving what you’re creating and building together. That truly can spark love in other ways as well.
SPEAKER: Bia
Yeah yeah you can’t give all of you into something if you don’t love it. So that applies to everything it applies to relationships and it applies to your business too. If you don’t love it and you don’t love what you are doing for you. Love what it’s doing for you and for the people around you then it’s only going to be really hard to make it work. Like how do you work on something that you don’t really believe in? Right?
SPEAKER: Timothy
That begs the question doesn’t it? What do you Bia specifically love most about your building together with Alex?
SPEAKER: Bia
I love that people from all walks of life here have the opportunity to discover themselves. There’s a lot of introspection and self self-exploration self-discovery and that comes with personal development as well because once you know your flaws and you know where you can get better that means you can get better. So there’s so many stories just of amazing transformations of people in their personal lives and also in their professional lives. And to me part of this community to be part of that story and to know that you did your part. It’s really fulfilling.
SPEAKER: Timothy
I can feel it in my gut as you speak it. Yeah. It’s strong. Alex, the same what do you love most about getting to build this with Bia?
SPEAKER: Alex
Well. First I think there’s a big thing that we’re forgetting is that we actually spend most of our day together. Which is like for me like that’s like five star. Right there. Right. Being able to be together with her all day long and working on whatever we have to do. Whether it’s a project online. It’s a project outside, if it’s grabbing the camera whatever it is. I feel that we are always close by. We always know what the other one is doing. We we we we trust. I don’t know is it just because it’s beautiful. I don’t know. And then it’s the fact that we are helping people. You know I like, me specially I like my business I like to talk to people. And sometimes we find those locks. Inside your head. And then let’s work on that. Let’s open perspective. Let’s shed light. So I think. I think. I think that’s it for me. For me it’s being able to bring the light to people. You know. Lighting them up.
SPEAKER: Bia
And doing it together with the people you love and the people you’re closest to. Is like the cherry on the cake.
SPEAKER: Timothy
I mean this is a bit of a family business for you guys…
SPEAKER: Alex
Yes, I am behind Rui 100%. Whatever he needs me to do I’ll do it.
SPEAKER: Bia
And the same with everybody else. If we need to shoot a video today. If you want to come over you know and take some pictures or whatever. We all get to work together and make it really fun because we all really like each other right. So it’s kool it’s extra fun that way. It doesn’t feel like work. It just feels like we’re hanging out and doing kool stuff.
SPEAKER: Timothy
Brilliant, brilliant. What advice would you give to other couples who are wanting to build something together.
SPEAKER: Alex
Find allies, this is my first thing. Finding allies and finding people that are like they either have what you want to have or they just call to you and they just provide some guidance you know like a sort of mentorship. Look for mentors look for people who are doing the things that you want to do.
How are you going to get there? You know. Get in contact with them or talk with them…
SPEAKER: Bia
Networking basically right. Get to know people. And get immersed in the world right.
SPEAKER: Alex
Yes, get immersed in the world whatever world that may be because everyone’s got their passion, right. And if they want to building something together I really really advise to take a look at this system. What we’ve been doing here amazing. The work we’re doing is amazing and we are just going to keep on.
SPEAKER: Timothy
Anything further advice that you would want to give them?
SPEAKER: Bia
I think I would say remember that everybody is a human being just like you. So that lead that comes into your list is not a dollar sign and they’re not like just the email address. There is a person there. And also your partner. There is a person there too. I know there can be a lot of clashes between couples especially if they are working together and they’re spending 24 hours a day together. There can be some backlashing. But if you if you always come from a place of understanding love and tolerance and acceptance and if you know that you’re both working for the same thing you both want to reach the same goal. Then you know that whatever whatever backlashing there is is going to be a constructive one because you’re going to learn you’re always going to learn to be able to adapt according to each other. So difference in opinion sometimes is a good thing because you’ll get to reach a balance there where there wasn’t one before.
SPEAKER: Timothy
Yeah, often I sign off by saying “Because Together, We Overcome.” This word overcoming. Is there anything that you would highlight that you have overcome because of what you’re doing together that maybe on your own you were not able to overcome.
SPEAKER: Alex
Everything. Like once we decided to be together in a relationship. And we decided this is serious. We want to see how far we can take this you know. So that’s what our first thought is.
We are together. What do we want? What are we going to achieve together? How is our relationship going to be in the future. You know a lot of future future planning and then it’s like every wall, if we hit a wall, we decided we’re going to be together. In a side to side position because we are facing this one wall we are not going to be occupied… Focused on other things and you know angry or whatever. We focus on OK we are in this situation. How can we deal with this? Let’s move forward. How can we together move forward. Not leave one person behind. That is important too.
SPEAKER: Bia
Just kind of brainstorming in the most you know outsider perspective kind of way as much as we can you know and just think OK so sit down let’s figure this out let’s see how we can make this work. Just write a bunch of ideas down. You know we just want.
SPEAKER: Alex
I have a white board just for that. I love a white board to get my ideas there and then discuss them. I just put everything together all the pieces of the puzzle working and then we gave birth to a little baby online which was www.Bloggers-Rule.com Our blog for a very long time. And we decided to make it almost like a training center and include idea sharing. It’s like our vehicle to the world and people. And people have come. “Man it’s so kool what you are doing. I love your blog. I like this video. I like that video. And it’s great it’s gratifying. And I’m really truly thankful. For. Everything. Even today doing this here. Thank you.
SPEAKER: Timothy
Thank you. And I’ve always been curious to ask you because I’ve heard this room called “The Kingdom.” Can you detail a little bit of how it got that name and why it holds that name.
SPEAKER: Bia
The Kingdom goes a little bit hand-in-hand with our dynamic as a couple. We’re supposed to be you know ourselves, you know 100% present ourselves. Just honest and transparent. And there’s no judgment there’s no hard feelings towards anything because we know that we love each other. We know we’re both going to the same place. So taking that into consideration. The kingdom is like a metaphorical space, like a safe place. Like a bubble. Where that’s exactly what you do right. You are 100 percent honest with yourself. You can talk about whatever you want with no judgment whatsoever. You know sometimes get things off your chest that you need to get out. Right. It’s like don’t worry about it just let it all out. You know sometimes some bad words and some cussing is important as well. Right. But that’s basically what the kingdom is. And it doesn’t apply just to us. Whoever comes over is automatically in the kingdom. And is free to be themselves and express. And be and learn and colder with the people that share and share it with them because this is a shared space.
SPEAKER: Alex
Learn together and share. This is the key. Share in everything. Because this a sharing space. This is The Kingdom it’s where we live where we work and where our friends come over. When we talk and it’s just this thing we’re doing right now. We are at home man.
SPEAKER: Timothy
Yeah. Yeah. This is a safe space for the signal. Like I get a sense of what you guys are doing is like a signal being broadcast out and others have an opportunity to take the old radio dial and tune in to get that you know good and solid in the signal connection and be able to listen and tune in and find out what you guys are doing. Yeah. Sharing right. You are regularly broadcasting out the sharing of this adventure. Brilliant and how would people tune into that? How would you suggest anyone watching or listening to this now would follow you and plug into the kingdom.
SPEAKER: Bia Facebook. Instagram
SPEAKER: Alex
Yea, Facebook and Instagram. We are everywhere. Our blog is good too bloggers-rule.com (most of the blog is in Portuguese)
SPEAKER: Bia
And We like to talk to people like you. We like input and output.
SPEAKER: Alex
Now we’re trying to work this whole translation thing. Automatic translation, like in the near future.
SPEAKER: Timothy
And there’s Google translate as well. You can throw the whole site into Google translate. I am sure they can tune in well enough to understand most of the message.
SPEAKER: Bia
Yes. Or just message us on Facebook. And we will be happy to share some things.
SPEAKER: Timothy
Brilliant. Well I look forward to having this opportunity to share more of what you guys are doing and hopefully will have a chance to loop back and check in with you in a month or six months and see how the signal is further extended to a worldwide community in Portuguese and Spanish and out and out and out. I have a sense that what you guys are doing is going to go a long long way. Anything else you want to share that I haven’t asked you.
SPEAKER: Bia and Alex
So many things. We could just sit here for hours and talk for days. Just give us a subject, the universe. We’ll talk about the universe.
SPEAKER: Timothy
There you go. Anyone watching this now, Alex is ready to entertain any question you may have. Throw it into The Safe Kingdom and Bia and Alex will respond. Brilliant, Thanks guys. Thank you so much. And for more of this this is just the beginning the premier of what we’re going to be going to share with you of profound stories and profound examples just like these two to inspire us to remind us that there is a safe space. As you guys have created with the Kingdom we can share in others at the same time that we can be empowered to create our own because truly together we do overcome. And that’s been my experience with my wife as a couple in my own relationship and it’s been happening for long enough now that I’m compelled to connect with others that are having a complementary message to be added in a way that we don’t lose our independence we don’t lose our individuality. There’s no surrendering of our ability to freely express who we are. At the same time that we can empower one other or many others to have a similar freedom and inspiration to be self aware and to get that message out whenever that message is that’s in you. Some people say there’s too many people on the planet and I just don’t believe it. I think every single person here is needed is wanted and has a story to share a piece to the puzzle. And you could say that I’m compelled to do this because I want to call for you to bring your puzzle piece so that we can put together a larger picture a world wide picture of a human family not just communities and blood families but I believe that in a complimentary way we’re going to piece together a larger picture of hope of inspiration and the ability to overcome anything and everything that we have before us to face.
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